My mother died November 1993, and we didn't see it coming.
It seems you're aware in advance to at least some degree. That said, and maybe you're already in contact, I hope you make the most of what ever time there is.
From a time that there were many in the USA and elsewhere abruptly confronted with the chasm between myth and reality where principles, identity, national identity, and integrity were concerned. Sometimes finding the corner stones of identity and perception of the world or universe were unset plaster and not the concrete some had stated them to be and believed them to be.