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Huey69
I'm just wondering, has anyone else lost "friends" due to smoking?
For the last couple of months my "friends" havn't been giving me a call or text or anything to hang out. I've repeatedly tried with multiple friends(different friends, same group of friends though) to hang out, only to either not be responded to, told something might be going on and will be given details later only to not get them, or just told i dunno.
Now, becuase of all this...I got kind of depressed (which I havn't told anyone, it's all just bullshit in my head, and I know that so I'm not letting it get to me). My best friend finally got back from school a couple days ago, which has been good and all saw alot of my "friends" last night when we had a little get together.
I talked to one friend who is also experiencing the same thing(he doesn't smoke though) and he told me the reason that my "friends" stopped hitting me up is becuase "I smoke too much and I changed and am an asshole all the time and talk shit"
This is just complete bullshit. I will admit I might smoke a bit more then I should (probably around half a gram a day+hash), but I don't feel that I should be critized for that when they drink 2+ times a week and make complete ass's of themselves. The only way I feel that I have changed is that I rarely drink anymore, I smoke before I go out (so it's not like i'm even smoking around these people), and the only "shit" I've talked is stating facts about people(i.e making an ass of themselves, getting kicked out of houses for stupid shit, etc). The worst part is, these people act like they're my best friends when they see me!!!!
I realize it might not be worth it to bother with these people anymore...but it's still something that bothers me greatly...I mean, I'm the guy who was dumped because I was too nice.
For the last couple of months my "friends" havn't been giving me a call or text or anything to hang out. I've repeatedly tried with multiple friends(different friends, same group of friends though) to hang out, only to either not be responded to, told something might be going on and will be given details later only to not get them, or just told i dunno.
Now, becuase of all this...I got kind of depressed (which I havn't told anyone, it's all just bullshit in my head, and I know that so I'm not letting it get to me). My best friend finally got back from school a couple days ago, which has been good and all saw alot of my "friends" last night when we had a little get together.
I talked to one friend who is also experiencing the same thing(he doesn't smoke though) and he told me the reason that my "friends" stopped hitting me up is becuase "I smoke too much and I changed and am an asshole all the time and talk shit"
This is just complete bullshit. I will admit I might smoke a bit more then I should (probably around half a gram a day+hash), but I don't feel that I should be critized for that when they drink 2+ times a week and make complete ass's of themselves. The only way I feel that I have changed is that I rarely drink anymore, I smoke before I go out (so it's not like i'm even smoking around these people), and the only "shit" I've talked is stating facts about people(i.e making an ass of themselves, getting kicked out of houses for stupid shit, etc). The worst part is, these people act like they're my best friends when they see me!!!!
I realize it might not be worth it to bother with these people anymore...but it's still something that bothers me greatly...I mean, I'm the guy who was dumped because I was too nice.
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