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whodi · 06-12-2008, 03:48 PM

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lotowork777 · 06-12-2008, 11:46 PM

Leave the relationship allready. There are so many chicks out there. Here in Norcal you see hot chicks with fuckin nerds all day long. So like me, you have a chance of meeting someone great with no baggage. You will have mad anxiety as a thinking man if you never leave her. It was her decision to have three kids.

southflorida · 06-14-2008, 12:23 AM

whodi.....talking from experience.....a woman who has three kids is the same as a woman who has no kids...at least as a person

the most important question is ''do you really love her?'' and ''does she love you back?''

if you love each other....then let the past be the past....start from where you are now and continue to create your relationship with her daily...concerning the kids...for many people this is a very tough question...not everyone can handle it for a long time

but if you really ''love'' her and you think she is that ''special'' person.....don't be scared....communicate to her all your thoughts whatever they are and let the chips fall where they fall.....don't keep it inside of you

because if you keep it bottled up.....it will all eat you alive from the inside and most likely destroy your relationship

i'm 37 now......and after being married to a my wife for 13 years....i do not regret it in any way....and she had two kids when we met from another relationship

if you stay focused on creating a result (a genuinely loving, caring and supportive relationship with this woman, for example) and see where you stand at this moment......the actions that you must take will appear before you...and you will know what the right thing to do is

anyway...hope this helps...later

whodi · 06-14-2008, 08:39 AM

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yukino_asano · 06-14-2008, 11:03 AM

Think about her and what she went throught.

She didnt choose to be molested.

get over it in your head. Cause that is what is hurting.

If you cannot accept the past and get over it. then you should move on. Because that would be hurting yourself and her.

Good luck.

IMHO<
It's very fucked up, the number of women that have been raped or molested.

stealthballer · 06-14-2008, 11:35 PM

walk away and stay away

you won't but you are setting yourself for a shitty life experience.

whodi · 06-16-2008, 11:10 AM

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DonBong · 06-16-2008, 01:13 PM

Yes U got to listen yourself, what U want and what U need.. Dont sit and think too much about the past! and it should be that if She is ok with the thing, then U should be ok with it too. It must of been hell for her when it happened and she have done the work going thru the whole thing and learned a way to smile, live and love. If U make her happy and satisfited, and she is enjoying life and loving U... damn, U should be a very proud man. But is it what U really want? I see U as a one lucky guy.. peace and love

stealthballer · 06-16-2008, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by whodi

lol u wild

how many girls have you been in love with?

as a sidenote, can I just mention her being sexually abused in the past may have something to do with why she likes the kinds of sex she does?

3kids=how many fathers?

do you have a history of wanting to rescue girls?

If you see a lost puppy dog with a limp do you feel the need to help it out?

walk away its not gonna end well.

whodi · 06-16-2008, 03:14 PM

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DonBong Outdoor Freak Join Date: May 2008 Location: eagle's nest Posts: 337	Yes U got to listen yourself, what U want and what U need.. Dont sit and think too much about the past! and it should be that if She is ok with the thing, then U should be ok with it too. It must of been hell for her when it happened and she have done the work going thru the whole thing and learned a way to smile, live and love. If U make her happy and satisfited, and she is enjoying life and loving U... damn, U should be a very proud man. But is it what U really want? I see U as a one lucky guy.. peace and love __________________ Kaikki ei ole niin helppoa kuin miltä näyttää, vaan se on myös hyvin yksinkertaista My Garden 2009
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lotowork777 Banned Join Date: May 2008 Location: Norcal Posts: 64	Leave the relationship allready. There are so many chicks out there. Here in Norcal you see hot chicks with fuckin nerds all day long. So like me, you have a chance of meeting someone great with no baggage. You will have mad anxiety as a thinking man if you never leave her. It was her decision to have three kids.
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06-14-2008, 12:23 AM	#3
southflorida lives on planet 4:20 Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 3,204	whodi.....talking from experience.....a woman who has three kids is the same as a woman who has no kids...at least as a person the most important question is ''do you really love her?'' and ''does she love you back?'' if you love each other....then let the past be the past....start from where you are now and continue to create your relationship with her daily...concerning the kids...for many people this is a very tough question...not everyone can handle it for a long time but if you really ''love'' her and you think she is that ''special'' person.....don't be scared....communicate to her all your thoughts whatever they are and let the chips fall where they fall.....don't keep it inside of you because if you keep it bottled up.....it will all eat you alive from the inside and most likely destroy your relationship i'm 37 now......and after being married to a my wife for 13 years....i do not regret it in any way....and she had two kids when we met from another relationship if you stay focused on creating a result (a genuinely loving, caring and supportive relationship with this woman, for example) and see where you stand at this moment......the actions that you must take will appear before you...and you will know what the right thing to do is anyway...hope this helps...later
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stealthballer Banned Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: look behind you Posts: 567	walk away and stay away you won't but you are setting yourself for a shitty life experience.
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