I don't think you can give a blanket complaint on either sex... We all come from different backgrounds, brought up differently... which means we all view things differently, interpret things differently... to say things like men don't listen and women talk too much... well I find just as many men that talk too damn much and women that don't listen...

For anyone to speak on behalf of one's gender... telling it like it is really.. it is telling it as YOU see it ... your truth is not everyone's truth.

I find it very, very interesting that more men post here in the women's forum then women...... seems some want to make it a place for the battle of the sexes...

[Verite]

Hold on one dang minute...


... if theres going to be a battle of the sexes Im getting the Twister mat and some baby oil.

^^ LOL too damn funny

[Verite]

And I always thought the #1 complaint was mouse wheel neglect.

[WolfSpider]

Originally Posted by Nikijad4210

I second that.

I have a nice little laundry list of examples of Wolf repeatedly ignoring me over the past few years, mostly pertaining to simple shit around the house...But the point still stands, and yes, it IS selective hearing, definately.

ohh i hear her just fine. chose not to do anything about. she speaks i listen.then go about my bissness anyway.

I agree with Nevermind on this one, its not that we don't listen or care to listen or care about what women think is just that most(not all) women tent to give every single detail about everything that has happend, what is going to happen or and what their thinking, and ya'lls opinions on everything. So we try to get the important stuff but decipher the useless details, which as stated is a very diffacult thing to master, little secret we decide whats important by the way you are talking if your all excited than we know " pay attention" if your talking slows we know "unimportant detail, turn ears off" shit like this. Sometime its just too much, more times than not it that men are tired and they want to relax, and women tend to gossip, yep I said it.

IMO we men are like the male lions were lazy unless we just have to do something, we wait for the women to bring home the food, prepare it. We eat and then we sleep, we do this day in and day out. I personally think its a male/female thing like most animals, to me women in general just have more energy than men IMO.

We love you girls though, we just don't have the energy to keep up. Peace

[asa42]

i was expecting to find comments like he tosses his undies on the floor or is always leaving dirty dishes all over or anything specific. i'm not about to talk generalizations, mostly cause i tend to be an exception. lol.
smiles

[Mrs.Babba]

asa..I like your style! ...I try not to generalize either, we are all unique in our on way...all commitments take work and compromise, its not easy, its something you have to want to be involved in...but asa said it pretty good I think

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IM that was really funny, i feel like that might have been written about me lol...when i'm ready to get married i think i'm definitely going to marry a woman who's first language is not english...then when she is speaking the accent will grab my attention due to the sexualized nature of foreign accents...it will be harder for her to complain about shit in english as well so that should help with nagging...i would probably go live in her part of the world as well, there is nothing sadder than seeing a once beautiful and unconflicted woman become americanized and dissatisfied with everything...