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Old 09-11-2006, 09:41 PM #31
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I agree it would be nice for mom's to be stay-at-home moms, many professionals claim that a working mom hurts the kids...
What if the mom needs to work to pay the bills though, and save for the kid's school?
Is it worse for the kid to grow up in debt? or is it worse for the kid to grow up in a daycare or preschool while mommy is out busting her butt to provide a better future for the kid? Seems like a catch 22 almost nowadays

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I agree it would be nice for mom's to be stay-at-home moms, many professionals claim that a working mom hurts the kids...
What if the mom needs to work to pay the bills though, and save for the kid's school?
Is it worse for the kid to grow up in debt? or is it worse for the kid to grow up in a daycare or preschool while mommy is out busting her butt to provide a better future for the kid? Seems like a catch 22 almost nowadays

Yes, but hurts the kids how? Are the downfalls of growing up in a family where neither parent is home full-time apparent to all involved, including the child, or are the effects subtle and buried deep beneath the surface?

I was a latchkey kid pretty much from the age of 10 on, and I'm thankful for it. Not to mention that, as you pointed out, the fact that both of my parents worked greatly contributed to our financial stability and is the sole reason I’m able to go to college and my father was able to go to medical school.
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Old 09-13-2006, 10:16 PM #33
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Old 09-18-2006, 03:22 PM #34
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Adam is walkin through the garden of Eden one day and gazes upon the most beautiful thing he's ever seen. He asks, "God, what IS that?" God says, "That is woman, she will cook, clean, is concerned about you, will take care of you and the house, help rear the children, show you love and compassion, never complain or nag and will be forever faithful". Adam replies, "Wow, bet they are expensive, what does one cost?" God says, "An arm and a leg". To that Adam replies, " That's too much, what can I get for a rib?"

Haha had to tell that one, folks. Hope you got a smile out of it. IMHO, many women, once a child is born put all of their emotional energy into that child, leaving the husband to adjust and somehow find his way. It weakens the marriage in far too many cases. Most peeps put their children first, and although it is a noble act, to me, the marriage comes first for it is the basis, the foundation if you will, that supports the family. The balance, of course, can be painfully hard to find. It's a big adjustment, no doubt about that. Infidelity used to be a term men were labeled with. My how that has changed. I'm an Operations Supervisor and work with 700 people every day, mostly women. (15-1 ratio women-men) I get hit on constantly by married women who are dead serious in their intentions. The "Men are Pigs" cliche' is still repeated, but one thing for sure, we've got plenty of company. To me, we're all screwed up, men and women. The key is to find a hell of a lot of patience and understanding on both sides. Some men look for a woman to take care of them and become very lazy and abusive, some women just want a man with money and feel somehow "entitled" once they find one. I've seen both. Who is more screwed up? Dunno, but it makes for one hell of an interesting conversation. Hell, at this point, I'm asking myself what I'm doing in the woman's forum. Guess I'll go find the "Mens Forum". LOL, still looking for that one. I'm feeling a little opressed......haha. Take care folks, keep the jokes coming. They're hilarious. Peace to all.
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Old 09-18-2006, 09:16 PM #35
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I wish i could stay home, cooking, make the laundry, play with the kids. Wish i could find a woman take the financial part over her shoulders!!!
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Old 09-18-2006, 09:20 PM #36
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Old 09-18-2006, 09:21 PM #37
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I wish i could stay home, cooking, make the laundry, play with the kids. Wish i could find a woman take the financial part over her shoulders!!!

Yeah because that is so easy right? That particular job, the homemaker/stay at home mom is a 24 hour a day 7 day a week job and you are always on call no matter where you go or what you do. And......the pay you get? hahahahahaha
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Old 09-30-2006, 06:18 PM #38
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I'm anxiously awaiting the day I can use my daughter as cheap slave labor, picking up a yard full of four large dogs shit is quite the task.

feed youre dog a natrual diet. raw meat, veggies, and fruits. they will only shit 1 to 2 times a day(just like humans), but the great thing is that there poop doesn't stay there for weaks at a time. it turns white in about 2 days and when you step on it it turns to powder, not smushed between youre toes in the middle of the night. all dog food is, is wheat and meat bybroducts. if you ate nothin but fiber all day you would shit alot to.


MOOSE i'm with ya man, i love my wife very much, coudn't emagin the world without her. but at the same time theres benn times when you just want to shake the hell out of her(i have never hit a woman). i'm quite sure my wife feels the same way. we take the good with the bad and keep on goin(12 years strong). it is deff hard bein male, but in the same breath i'm glad i'm not female,,,,,,,,,,,,dwtc
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Old 10-04-2006, 06:37 PM #39
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Yeah because that is so easy right? That particular job, the homemaker/stay at home mom is a 24 hour a day 7 day a week job and you are always on call no matter where you go or what you do. And......the pay you get? hahahahahaha

Having been a single parent of 2 babies I can honestly say Let me go to work and earn the money, my hat is off to any woman for taking that job. That's why I look at my wife as a Goddess, any woman who will marry a man who is raising 2 babies on his own and take over the mommy role of 2 kids that aren't hers plus a man child is a keeper in my eyes. When I think back to those days of being a single parent and meeting my wife and what she has done for us the term HEAVEN SENT suddenly makes perfect sense to me
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Old 10-04-2006, 07:59 PM #40
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