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08-21-2006, 08:59 AM
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i was the guy who never wanted kids,,, i said nope, i dont think so,,, ppl say when u having kids i d say naver,,,, but i changed my mind,,, and im glad i did....
i think being a parent has changed me in so many ways,,,, its made me crazy,,, its made me feel tenderness i never felt,, its made me humbled,, its made me compassionate, its made me understand more about human nature, its made me stronger adn weaker at the same time,,, i could could go on and and on,,,, |
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08-21-2006, 09:00 AM
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i was the guy who never wanted kids,,, i said nope, i dont think so,,, ppl say when u having kids i d say naver,,,, but i changed my mind,,, and im glad i did....
i think being a parent has changed me in so many ways,,,, its made me crazy,,, its made me feel tenderness i never felt,, its made me humbled,, its made me compassionate, its made me understand more about human nature, its made me stronger and weaker at the same time,,, i could could go on and and on,,,, thanx Mrs. GH great topic... |
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08-21-2006, 03:56 PM
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I can't even relate to people w/o kids , granted some of 'em act like they aren't even parents . Don't sweat it , go on 'bout your business , later on in life they may or may not relize what they missed out on .
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08-22-2006, 08:18 AM
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I'm stay at home father. Kids have change my whole life. I can't even remember what life was like before my angels came to this world.
Nothing beats a small kiss on the cheek from a child. Or hearing "Daddy Love". Now refilling the sippy cup every five minutes.....well, that's a different story.
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08-23-2006, 06:57 AM
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heheh sippy cup, soooo cute
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08-23-2006, 07:17 PM
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My parents have put me through 5 divorces. I've had 2 step moms and 2 step dads and 7 different step brothers. I saw the way that all of them treated us kids and swore I would never put mine through that hell and misery. I've been married now for over 20 years and have one special child that is my shadow my buddy and my friend. Do kids change ya? Hell yes they do. Some for the better and some for the worse just like Verite said. My graduating class had 1200 people. My wife and I are the only one's still married and there are a few hundred kids that all came from broken homes that will be the better or the worse because of it. Oh and that sippy cup as long as I can hold her while she drinks it and get a little giggle every now and then I'd do it 24/7 and would never bat and eye. Good Thread Mr.Wags
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10-14-2006, 07:23 PM
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Everything changes after having a child. Things that mattered before seem to become non-existent because you have this little helpless child that depends on you for everything, but you know what, I wouldn't have it any other way.
She is the light of my life! |
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12-27-2006, 03:10 AM
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 I went to school there. I'm sorry that you can't grow in such a place without seriously risking your children's welfare.
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12-27-2006, 05:01 AM
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I know my child has changed my life for sure! We adopted her last year and I couldn't possibly imagine loving her anymore than a biological child!!! Her biological mother was killed in a car wreck and her father didn't want anything to do with her! Luckly for her and my wife and I! There's no difference in my eyes and I know she will love us just the same! She gets told ALL the time how much I love her! Daddy is her best friend! We play every evening when I get home from work! It's like Mrs. G hinted to, I wonder what I ever did without her! There's nothing like making her laugh!!!
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12-27-2006, 11:32 AM
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I also am a stay home father of 4 and i can say having a child does change your life me and their mom were married for 12 years,But you also have to want to be around children in order for it to,after the last child was born my first wife refused to be a parent i would leave for work come home 10 houre later and the baby would have the same diaper on, i know i put a mark on it with a marker before i left.So we fought about it and she went to work so i could stay home and watch the kids she just didnt want to. she died a few years back of cancer i remaried twice after and i am on the second marriage now,the first remarriage lasted about 2 years it ended after i found out the kids new stepmom had secretly placed life insurance on my children with her as benifichary without my knowledge. she had no love for my kids just for the social security benifits they were getting,The 3rd wife loves my children when she wants to and nags and bitches when she dont want them around, An issue im sad to say will probably end up in divorce court, if i ever get married again it will be well after my kids have grown beacuse in my oppinion step parents these days generally just dont care for a child the way a blood parent does, i know that is not always the case but im not willing to keep bringing ppl into my children's lives only to find out that after a few years they dont really like kids
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