[BM-504]

Well cause of my "hobby" I have been out of the dating game for too many years. I had all but given up on women.
I recently had a Lady come into my life, she is at the tail end of a divorce, and has a couple of kids. She made it clear when we first got together that she saw other guys...We have been getting together about every month for a day or two for about 5 months now.
One day I ran into her at her work and she gave me a smile that melted my heart....I knew on that day that I had developed feelings for her that were deeper than just the casual sex that we have been having.

And not healthy for me knowing that she see's other guys to....its hard to sleep when you know she is with someone else....I have enough stress im my life w/o women problems.....I'll have to deal with it but it's tough.

Anyway like all women she wants to romanced....besides the obvious Flowers and good deeds...Im all ears for some romantic ideas.

Thanks
BM

[pieceofmyheart]

This sounds negative I know but it sounds like you are setting yourself up for a broken heart.
Unless she feels the same way, and I think if she did, she wouldn't be dating other men, you are asking to be hurt.

You won't be able to "romance" her into having the same feelings that you do.

^^^ POMH is correct, I would have a serious sit down with her about the steps you and her want to take in the relationship. That way you will know what to expect (1 guy...you, or playing the field) if she wants to play the field, I wouldn't waste a romantic evening on her (not meaning to be rude or mean) save that for the one who wants you and you only.

HTH

Just curious, how old are the kids anyway?

[Verite]

I always felt the best place to reveal inner secrets to people you care about was on Springer.

Priceless pic Verite. ROTFLMAO
I absolutely agree with the above opinions. Save the romance for the one who is worth it. Enjoy your friend while she is around and try to forget about her when she isn't. Start dating other people.....

My dad once told me, "Son, the two things in this world most likely to get you in trouble are organized religion and women." He also told me..." you need to keep a bucket of rocks at hand. If you see a woman coming start throwing them till she leaves, you'll be way better off."

lol
Seed

she has kids already? single divorced women with kids = BIG TIME TROUBLE.
just have sex with her as much as possible and thats it.. dont pay any of her bills,. dont get hooked on her, ... you will be sorry

[BM-504]

All points are well taken!
But I have already had the broken heart and the emotional roller coaster!

She has two boys 10,12

They story is a bit more complex than I care to type, but lately we have been hanging quite a bit...I dont really see the other guys as much of a threat as she has been with me and not them!

We have had some serious conversation and she just doesnt want to be cornered right now....we are just going to give things some time and see where we end up.

I was just looking for some womens perspective on stuff thats romantic, since Im a little rusty in that dept.

Thanks
BM

i would suggest you casually inform her you'll be "on a date" the next time she wants to get together:wink: then def. dont see her that night and let her "assume" you went on that date. see how she reacts after the date or when she becomes informed. if she gets shook about it..maybe theres something there and that may make her wanna a commitment...if not....your still in same position you were before except a little wiser for the wear knowing she just wants to be fuck buddies:wink:
good luck man..let us know