[BagseedSamurai]

Heres a story. Id like your .02 on it.

So today I run into this girl. Id met her a while back at the counter at a local shop, talked for a few seconds, got her number, and moved along. Called her, invited her out, she said shed call me back. never did.

So today, run into her again. Same place. Whatever. She absolutely beamed at me. And I ask her why she never called back. She mentioned that I was playing poker that night. I informed her that i play on thursdays, but wouldnt mind meeting her any other day. Making it kind of clear that Id rather go out with her for a night, then play poker at some dive. Whatever again. Im pretty stand-offish about the whole thing, in retrospect. I said that it was her turn to call me if she wanted, gave her MY number, and told her she should call me.

She did.

So she invited me to lunch. She doesnt know much about where it will be, or when. Said shed call me tomorrow morning to tell me. Sounded like she wanted to talk but was like..just wanting to make it quick? I dont know how they think.

After I hung up the phone, I blinked at myself. I kind of wanted to get to know her a bit better before I go out to lunch with her and a few of HER friends. Thats an intimidating situation. So I call her back, and ask if she has the internet. She says no. I inquired as to her phone charging situation. Ugh. I say ill just talk to her tomorrow. And we hung up.

I sounded more desperate than I first thought. It was something that I shouldve just thought of on the phone with her at first. But my dumb ass forgot, and I had wondered all day. haha. Anyway, long story short.

Should I even go?

What the fuck is going on. -_-;

Girls are sketchy. Go and hit on her friends.

[BagseedSamurai]

Originally Posted by SonshineWurship

Girls are sketchy. Go and hit on her friends.

rotfl. Agreed.

[BagseedSamurai]

She just called ME! wtf..

Apperantly she wants to hang out tonight..

[pieceofmyheart]

Stop over analyzing everything. She is probably as nervous as you.

Originally Posted by pieceofmyheart

Stop over analyzing everything. She is probably as nervous as you.

True. Woman can get just as nervous over a man as we men can get over a woman. Just go out with her and have a good time. But, most importantly, be yourself.

[mrwags]

Originally Posted by Thisbuds4u

True. Woman can get just as nervous over a man as we men can get over a woman. Just go out with her and have a good time. But, most importantly, be yourself.

That is it in a nutshell. treat them like gold and they will walk all over ya treat them like crap and you'll beat them of with a stick. These words are from a friend of mine who is the biggest male whore I've ever met. Women just standing in line to get hurt wtf. me on the other hand treat them like gold and was luck enough to find one I liked over 20 years ago and still act like it's our first date sometimes.

Just be you man if she didn'yt like what she saw she never would have called.



Mr.Wags

[allmanbroskif]

be like , 'babeh, you without me is like harold melvin without the bluenotes, you neva goin platinum'

[Mrs.Babba]

POMH has some good advice, just be yourself and go hang out with her, if you guys hit it off make another date, if not no harm no foul, its not easy for a girl to make the first move[at least thats how I would feel] so just go with it and have fun!

[Verite]

Unless youre on an episode of Elimidate I would suggest ditching the friends considering its just a lunchtime meet. Otherwise youre not just being evaluated by one girl you are trying to get to know, you get grilled by the whole group and chances are if one of them doesnt like you by the end of lunch stick a fork in you as you are done. If just the two of you meet and she likes you then she will defend that when you do meet the friends. Or you could tell her that you feel uncomfortable being there with her friends, so you invited your mom along.