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Scottish Research · 01-12-2012, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by castout

drop whatever we are doing, and give them a hand....If I ever ask TOH to drop what he is doing, and help me, he acts like I am so rude. I try to tell him if I am in the middle of something he can't expect me to drop what I am doing to help him....but he does. Then when I try that, he says, he is busy!!!! Men are funny, and I dunno that I will ever figure them out!!! But I love my man, foibles and all!!!!!

I think that you have it backwards. I don't know any guys that have this expectation of their wives. No. It is always the woman that wants help right now! You should see the look of disgust on her face after she asks me to help her do something after I tell her that I'll help her in the morning or later in the day. No it has to be right now. Guys don't do this. No way.

R.Fortune

Princess Vahall · 01-12-2012, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by DTFuqua

Basicly, most couples have different reasons to ask for help. I ask for help when it takes more hands than I have but my wife will ask for help just to know that I love her enough to do things for her.

Sigh....which is why I probably never ask for help anymore.

lost in a sea · 01-12-2012, 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Robert Fortune

You should see the look of disgust on her face after she asks me to help her do something after I tell her that I'll help her in the morning or later in the day. No it has to be right now. Guys don't do this. No way.

R.Fortune

got to agree with this,,, has to be now!!

maybe men are lazy and women are there to motivate them

paulo73 · 01-12-2012, 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by FreezerBoy

You may love your guy but, not your man because you don't have one. You have a child. A man takes care of his woman.

+1
Thanks FreezerBoy

I also expect her to do the same to me

a Woman takes care of her Man

01-12-2012, 07:03 PM

Let's see - if I ask for help, it's only because I've tried to do it myself and cannot, and I NEED help right away.

BUT I never ask for help w/ the grocery shopping, the laundry, most meals and the dishes (all of which I do - by myself - because I want to). She brings home the "bacon" right now - I do what I can.

She snaps at me to do shit she is thinking of right now - My Mrs. is borderline Type A personality - I am borderline Type Z (1 heartbeat away from comatose).

She is my greatest treasure - I tell her every day, and I tell my 2 beautiful sons she gave me twice a day how much I love them.

What was the question again???

paulo73 · 01-12-2012, 07:08 PM

"My Mrs. is borderline Type A personality - I am borderline Type Z (1 heartbeat away from comatose)."

Gonna make a TShirt with this one if you don´t mind.
Just to use indoors of course

lost in a sea · 01-12-2012, 07:10 PM

lol i was just thinking the same thing!!

instant classic quote!

castout · 01-12-2012, 07:23 PM

I was talking about in the grow. I will be in the middle of cloning, and he will come and say "Babe, need you for a minute to hold this 2x4?". I immediately stop what I am doing, and go help. He was watering the other day, and I asked "Babe, can you come pass me the lil cups to be transplanted?" he turns around and says "Can't you see, I am busy?" I guess I was talking about the way women seem to programmed to drop what they are doing, and men are programmed to finish what they are doing. I was not trying to put TOH down, he is the best man I know. I am blessed that such a caring, kind, responsible, and loyal man, loves me. I wouldn't trade him for anything. It is just kind of a cosmic joke, that men and women understand absolutely nothing about the other, lol!!!!! But yeah, some real interesting responses.....some harsh shit, too, lol. Glad those of you who were harsh, didn't quite get what I was getting at. Ahhhh MEN, you are a mystery to me!!!!!

Warped1 · 01-12-2012, 07:27 PM

So does this mean I can't use you for an excuse?

01-12-2012, 07:36 PM

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Originally Posted by paulo73

"My Mrs. is borderline Type A personality - I am borderline Type Z (1 heartbeat away from comatose)."

Gonna make a TShirt with this one if you don´t mind.
Just to use indoors of course

I reserve my rights - but grant YOU license on a quid pro quo...

For every $1,000,000.00 you make - I want a week in A'dam, on you, and we smoke a shit load of everything the whole time...

Deal???

Thengya, thengya verra mush...

01-12-2012, 07:03 PM	#25
Classy@Home Guest Posts: n/a	Let's see - if I ask for help, it's only because I've tried to do it myself and cannot, and I NEED help right away. BUT I never ask for help w/ the grocery shopping, the laundry, most meals and the dishes (all of which I do - by myself - because I want to). She brings home the "bacon" right now - I do what I can. She snaps at me to do shit she is thinking of right now - My Mrs. is borderline Type A personality - I am borderline Type Z (1 heartbeat away from comatose). She is my greatest treasure - I tell her every day, and I tell my 2 beautiful sons she gave me twice a day how much I love them. What was the question again???
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01-12-2012, 07:08 PM	#26
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01-12-2012, 07:10 PM	#27
lost in a sea Lifer Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: The lighthouse Posts: 9,975	lol i was just thinking the same thing!! instant classic quote! __________________ "The kingdom of heaven is within you and without you ; any man who knows himself shall find it"
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01-12-2012, 07:23 PM	#28
castout Banned Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: crazytown, usa Posts: 1,240	I was talking about in the grow. I will be in the middle of cloning, and he will come and say "Babe, need you for a minute to hold this 2x4?". I immediately stop what I am doing, and go help. He was watering the other day, and I asked "Babe, can you come pass me the lil cups to be transplanted?" he turns around and says "Can't you see, I am busy?" I guess I was talking about the way women seem to programmed to drop what they are doing, and men are programmed to finish what they are doing. I was not trying to put TOH down, he is the best man I know. I am blessed that such a caring, kind, responsible, and loyal man, loves me. I wouldn't trade him for anything. It is just kind of a cosmic joke, that men and women understand absolutely nothing about the other, lol!!!!! But yeah, some real interesting responses.....some harsh shit, too, lol. Glad those of you who were harsh, didn't quite get what I was getting at. Ahhhh MEN, you are a mystery to me!!!!!
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