[Stonerbitch]

Ok, here is the problem, I'm not into the growing procedure, just like pertaking of the herb.however my husband is into the growing.very good he is, might I add, anyway,i would like to be more involved and not sure how to approach this.any advice would be greatly appreciated.

ask him if you can grow a few yourself.

As most growers dont like other people touching there baby's he he he.

That way he can show you stuff and you can show him how to give that extra care. as girl growers are most times very good. Giving lots of attention to there plants.

[SirTOKESalot]

Roberta?? lol I wishhh.

[Weird]

i bet you will never hear about how growing brings couples together

i like karma's suggestion, i hope your husband knows how lucky he is

[Stonerbitch]

Thank you all for the advice, I'm new to this sight and learning to move around it.:smoke

[Puffaluffagus]

Try tossing him a BJ in the growroom for starters, that should make him pretty receptive to future visits there from you.

Originally Posted by Stonerbitch

Ok, here is the problem, I'm not into the growing procedure, just like pertaking of the herb.however my husband is into the growing.very good he is, might I add, anyway,i would like to be more involved and not sure how to approach this.any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Just ask the man to teach you, most of us guys would love our better half's to share our passion with us.
Happy growing

[dagnabit]

as a 13 year married grower here is my take:
The grow room is like my "man cave" i enjoy my wifes visits to the room but, i enjoy them because of their scarcity. The last thing i want is input,advice or participation. The greatest joy in her visits is her praise on how the plants look and the look on her face when she hits a particularly good batch.
Think of it like a chef.
the chef loves to cook in his kitchen. last thing the chef wants is someone else in his kitchen but when you just show up every once in a while just to say hello it's welcomed and appreciated (and you get to sample the sauce at it's freshest).
best bet? thinking of how it would work if my wife(black thumb and all) wanted in?
if she asked me to help her set up a little cab to learn in.
the problem therein lies with hubby taking over your cab when he sees leaves drooping

[supermanlives]

no putang till he gives in . shouldnt take more than a week

[PoopyTeaBags]

**Oops! Post by Miss Blunted, Not PTB**

I used to grow with mine, but he's a Nazi in the grow room, no fun....I quit. I only work when I have to now....room flips, trimming, cleaning up, extra hands...whatever. I had a baby 7 months ago, so now I'm like, "Sorry, baby needs something!" Lol.

We used to work really well together, but as life changed, so did our roles around the house. Joining IC is a step to show your hubby that you're interested. A lot of threads will be good topics of discussion at home and a chance for you to learn on the side

Like Karma said, some people don't want anyone interfering, but there's so many chores around a grow room...there's something for you to do! Maybe when he sees that you're good at mixing soil or staking, he'll let you move on to more complicated stuff like taking clones or learning the nutes so you can water sometimes.

I personally don't like to grow in the style we do now...we run RDWC and that's a system for lazy bastards like my guy. I like coco and soil I used to do a lot of the grunt work when we weren't in hydro and I do miss it sometimes.....nothing like being covered in Promix, worm castings and bird shit, lol.