I enjoy reading growing sites because often the male growers talk about taking good care of "their girls" or "their ladies". They post things like, "I hauled lots of water for my poor girls. They were very thirsty!"

It's such a relief to see men talking kindly about nurturing females, even if they are just plants, in this world where so much misogyny still exists.
Does anyone else feel that way?

[Sleepy]

yeah its a shame real 'girls' get mistreated and abused.

I treat my 'girls' the same way I treat my wife. With alot of Love and Caring. I just don't get to smoke my wife when it's all over.

That's good. You can tell everything about a man by the way he treats women.

I hope I was clear that I wasn't trying to cast dispersions on all men - I was thinking of rap songs in which we are "hos" and that sort of thing. Here we are in a place where men routinely say nice things not bad things about us.

I know what ya mean GG, most guys don't treat their ladies worth a damn. I just happen to be an old school country boy, who has found my soulmate.

"If mamma ain't happy...No ones happy" live by that and you'll be a happy man. All you Ladies know it's the truth.

I am a bit "old school" too on how I thing men should treat the ladies. No real feminism here, believe it or not.




My mama always told me, "You get what you give."

"If mamma ain't happy...No ones happy"

Thats very true, it took me about 25 years to get it but now that I do life is so much better.
I think being a man means ( I keep losing my train of thought....) always respecting women even if you don't understand them, just like they do us.
And I always speak highly of my woman because she is a reflection of me.
Peace

well said Dirty South

if the woman aint happy i aint happy either.

taking care of them and helping em out, makes her AND ME feel better.

whatcha give is whatcha get.


God bless all the ladies.

[Verite]

Even if plants were "ambi-sextrous" men would still have the sexist tendency to "implant" female adjectives to them much the same way they do cars, planes, and other inanimate objects of power and desire.

[BrattPid]

I have a sister and a mother. I believe most of you do. Just imagine how they would be treated like crap by men. You'll get really pissed. So why should you treat a woman like crap as well. she's someone's daughter,someone's sister. I once got into a fight because a neighbour of mine had hit his wife, or beat her really hard. she was bruised up. Pissed me off so much. I asked if he would stand there doing nothing if I would beat the crap out of his sister,daughter ,niece or any female relative he loved deeply. He answered he would kill me. So I yelled at him ..really well your wife is someone's daughter,niece,sister too. Is she lesser that your relatives? He starting yelling more profanity. I guess you can't debate with people who know they are wrong.