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gaslighting

BearCreekFarms

Active member
here is a little Something sent to me by a colleague today, food for thought..........


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Gaslighting

Have you ever asked yourself, ‘am I crazy?’ If you have ever asked yourself that, you’re not crazy. You’re most likely being gaslighted. Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse aimed at controlling a person by altering reality to the point where the person will doubt their own sanity.

The term “gaslighting” comes from a 1930’s play called Gas Light. The main character in the play literally tries to drive his wife crazy by gradually dimming the gas-powered lights in their home. When she notices the lights dimming, her husband not only denies that the lights are dimming, he convinces her that she is imagining it to the point where she questions her own sanity.

We are living in a perpetual state of gaslighting. The reality that we are being told by the media is at complete odds with what we are seeing with our own two eyes. And when we question the false reality that we are being presented, or we claim that what we see is that actual reality, we are vilified as racist or bigots or just plain crazy. You’re not racist. You’re not crazy. You’re being gaslighted.

New York State has twice as many deaths from Covid-19 than any other state, and New York has accounted for one fifth of all Covid-19 deaths, but we are told that New York Governor Andrew Cuomo has handled the pandemic better than any other governor. But if we support policies of Governors whose states had only a fraction of the infections and deaths as New York, we’re called anti-science and want people to die. So, we ask ourselves, am I crazy? No, you’re being gaslighted.

We see mobs of people looting stores, smashing windows, setting cars on fire and burning down buildings, but we are told that these demonstrations are peaceful protests. And when we call this destruction of our cities, riots, we are called racists. So, we ask ourselves, am I crazy? No, you’re being gaslighted.

We see the major problem destroying many inner-cities is crime; murder, gang violence, drug dealing, drive-by shootings, armed robbery, but we are told that it is not crime, but the police are the problem in the inner-cities. We are told we must defund the police and remove law enforcement from crime-riddled cities to make them safer. But if we advocate for more policing in cities overrun by crime, we are accused of being white supremacists and racists. So, we ask ourselves, am I crazy? No, you’re being gaslighted.

The United States of America accepts more immigrants than any other country in the world. The vast majority of the immigrants are “people of color”, and these immigrants are enjoying freedom and economic opportunity not available to them in their country of origin, but we are told that the United States is the most racist and oppressive country on the planet, and if we disagree, we are called racist and xenophobic. So, we ask ourselves, am I crazy? No, you’re being gaslighted.

Capitalist countries are the most prosperous countries in the world. The standard of living is the highest in capitalist countries. We see more poor people move up the economic ladder to the middle and even the wealthy class through their effort and ability in capitalist countries than any other economic system in the world, but we are told capitalism is an oppressive system designed to keep people down. So, we ask ourselves, am I crazy? No, you’re being gaslighted.

Communist countries killed over 100 million people in the 20th century. Communist countries strip their citizens of basic human rights, dictate every aspect of their lives, treat their citizens like slaves, and drive their economies into the ground, but we are told that Communism is the fairest, most equitable, freest and most prosperous economic system in the world. So, we ask ourselves, am I crazy?
No, you’re being gaslighted.

The most egregious example of gaslighting is the concept of “white fragility”. You spend your life trying to be a good person, trying to treat people fairly and with respect. You disavow racism and bigotry in all its forms. You judge people solely on the content of their character and not by the color of their skin. You don’t discriminate based on race or ethnicity. But you are told you are a racist, not because of something you did or said, but solely because of the color of your skin. You know instinctively that charging someone with racism because of their skin color is itself racist. You know that you are not racist, so you defend yourself and your character, but you are told that your defense of yourself is proof of your racism. So, we ask ourselves, am I crazy? No, you’re being gaslighted.
 

Gry

Well-known member
A classic example gaslighting would be a poster that would like you to believe they are

of good character despite the selection of an avatar depicting people being struck by a vehicle while protesting.
 

BearCreekFarms

Active member
I wasnt discussing my character, its questionable at best, im sure my wife would agree.


Its just an idea, dont let it scare you.


BOOOO!


:jerkit:
 

Fixer

Active member
Some things are symptoms of a deeper problem. You may need to dig to understand why people react the way they do. If I look around my own community I'd only see people with resources behaving well. You have to imagine yourself in the position of the people who are drug dealing, rioting and looting. If you never leave your hood you can't understand what it's like to be somewhere else.
 

Amynamous

Active member
The fiction above makes a lot of untrue assumptions and seems to be geared towards gaslighting.
How ironic.
PS. I have NEVER been accused of being a racist because i am white.
 

Gry

Well-known member
See more FUD here than anything else, but will check back later to see what may have changed.
 

CosmicGiggle

Well-known member
Moderator
Veteran
Gaslighting?

Gaslighting?

....... avatar depicting people being struck by a vehicle while protesting.

..... or, depicting people being struck by a vehicle while they were standing/blocking the road and wouldn't get out of the way? :whistling:
 

Amynamous

Active member
..... or, depicting people being struck by a vehicle while they were standing/blocking the road and wouldn't get out of the way? :whistling:

In the US, pedestrians typically have the right of way.
I’ve heard that in some places, pedestrians are target practice...:bump:and it certainly seemed that way when i was inSouth America.
Now i am curious where you live.:bump:
 

BearCreekFarms

Active member
In the US, pedestrians typically have the right of way.
I’ve heard that in some places, pedestrians are target practice...:bump:and it certainly seemed that way when i was inSouth America.
Now i am curious where you live.:bump:


Pedestrians are generally termed as those crossing the street, not standing in the middle of it waiting for victims.
 

Dropped Cat

Six Gummi Bears and Some Scotch
Veteran
..... or, depicting people being struck by a vehicle while they were standing/blocking the road and wouldn't get out of the way? :whistling:




The driver has the responsibility to not strike pedestrians,
except in death race mode, natch.

Unless you are insane. Behind the wheel of a moving vehicle, pedestrians moving about,
by all means gun it, lol.


Would you run EC 12.0 to get bigger plants, damn, you guys slay me.
 

BearCreekFarms

Active member
If sole responsibility is to the driver, why are there lights and signals at crosswalks for pedestrians?


Why is jaywalking a ticketable offense?
 

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