After reading the OP's first post I say: It's never too late to start over. Don't walk, run away from that woman. That kind of total lack of gratitude and appreciation can never be fixed because it has gone way over the line and it is abusive behavior. No one should ever tolerate abusive behavior. At this point she shows no amount of compassion, understanding or appreciation for you; she now totally takes you for granted.
It's gone too far and you should stop taking abuse immediately. Run brother run. Run for your life because what you are living now, is not life, it is EXISTING in misery. It's life destroying.
Regardless of how old you are, you still have time to live. Go out and live before it's too late.
Love is how you treat someone and how you behave towards him or her. What she demonstrates with her behavior is the farthest thing from love there is. Taking someone totally for granted and with no appreciation what so ever, is not the behavior of someone who loves you, it's the behavior of someone who is totally indifferent to you. Saying you love someone is easy to do. Showing (genuine and sincere) appreciation and gratitude is BEHAVING and ACTING like you love someone. Actions speak FAR, FAR louder than words. Just as a picture is eorth a thousand words, behavior is with a thousand words. The only way to truly determine if someone loves you or not is how they treat you and not what they say.
After all of your hard work on your day off and oh by the way, while you are slaving away she is lounging in a chair reading a book, all she has to say is," Somebody else could have done it quicker", is not a sign of love but contempt. Trust me brother once it has gone that far, it's over. Stop existing in this hell, get away from the abuse and go out and live. No need to any longer tolerate this abuse and neglect.
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I'd agree with you but then we'd both be wrong.
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