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Old 09-19-2018, 06:30 PM #11
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With all the bitching...
She already has.


If there's no communication, how can there be a worth while relationship? And if it's getting worse... Why delay the inevitable and suffer through more of the same misery?
I absolutely agree with this..

To me personally I would end it from what you have said. Don't hang on to something or someone that is slowly chipping away at your soul.
To me it sounds like she has already checked out of the relationship so why keep wasting your time.
There's a 15 year difference between me and my Mrs but I'm the younger and I'm still madly in love with her and we've been together close to 16 years.
You need to flat out ask her if she is still in love with you.
Ive been in a relationship where I was being treated pretty much the same as you and I hung on and it ended all the same.
I'm glad it did because where I am now has me super content. I truely believe I found my soul mate. If I had kept hanging on to the relationship that was previous I wouldn't have ever known this love.
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Maybe remind her that a plumber would have charged you ten times what the job cost, and say, "You're welcome." as you leave the room.

If she's not into communicating, and is being a **** on top of it... ask her if she even WANTS to be in the relationship any more.

I bet she doesn't.

After you get an answer, you can either pick up the pieces and move on apart or together.

Make no mistake: it's in pieces right now. Not healthy.
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30+ years with my wife.. things change, people change. Doesn't mean it's the end.. but it's up to the two of you to decide. Spill your guts.. make sure she understands where your at. Work on it.. give it the honest effort. It'll soon be apparent which direction you need to go.

Imagine this.. a man on front lawn wrestling with a toilet trying to unclog it with whatever tools and a hose he thought would be helpful. Muddy and wet this man says fuck it and buys a new toilet. Tells the women in the house what caused it.. and not to do it again.


Sewer vent starts puking out sewage.. call the plumber. $450.. told the women in the house what caused it.


Few months later the sewer vent backs up again. $450 to the plumber. Pissed off dude walks in the house, calls the women and hands them the bill. Told them to split it..


Man hasnt had an issue in years..
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Uhhhh ... Hmmmm.

Not sure there are many women here.

Maybe you're fixing stuff too fast. Let her live without so she appreciates your work more.

Once I talked a woman friend into changing a tire, so that she would learn and not be so dependent on men.
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Its hard when you only hear one side....30 years is a long time to not try to see if its worth saving...saying that I would ask her why she is doesn't seem to be interested in making the marriage work? It takes both of you to want to stay together and if 1 person has checked out then you should part ways.... but if you still love each other and want to make it work then things need to change...maybe a date night? get a new toy[if you know what I mean] being together for so long its easy to just become complacent and drift apart....good luck!
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Some good advice in this thread. Not sure I could add much, not great at relationships myself, my dog loves me though. Maybe get a dog?
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