Problem has been dealt with.
In short he apologized for the delay and said he runs 6 businesses whether people want to believe him or not and his time is completely consumed. So I suppose its have a seed shop and not great customer service or not have one at all because he doesn't trust anyone with the mail. He thought I was "just another scammer" trying to shake him down for beans.
I got the video watched it twice. The package arrived, but it was not in the UPS folder they are supposed to put it in for expedited delivery. Next time I will demand to put it in my self and seal it and probably fuckin film it. I paid for next day or 2-3 day and the packaged just had the printout on my fuckin envelope.
The lady at the ups store looked methed out. That stuck in my memory how bad she looked so I question if this was her. I don't know if it was her or someone a long the line, but it doesn't really matter I suppose.
I can accept UPS probably fucked me over. It is a bad situation on both ends now. I wish it was handled before now, but I don't hold grudges life is too short for that shit and we all fuck up sometimes or don't handle things right.
I placed another order as I believe what he has said in conversations and the video, but smaller as funds are limited now and will let you guys know how it goes.