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Do you belive in love?

Bonzo

Active member
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I couldnt stomach reading all these pages about love, but wanted to say i agree with Indigo.

" I believe in it but want no part of it "

I love Pisces women, oops did i say love? Admire may be a better word.

peace

bonz
 
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I believe in love and i really think that so should everyone, and when i say love i'm not using the hollywood concept - happily ever after - love is much more than that, love is much more than a relation with another person, that's just our point of view.

Take compassion for every living thing - if you really think of it, that's love too.

There's lots of ways of showing love - everytime you look at something you find beautifull in any way, a flower or a landscape or your little aemjay garden there's something you feel inside of you - that's love, everytime you smile, that's love too but just a more simple version of it :)

Try this, next time you're at the park, as much as new age stoner as it may seem, try sharing some of your love with a tree - imagine as if it was the most beautifull tree in the whole world and project your love to it - while doing this realise what is going on inside you, what you are feeling is love, it must be real, you can feel it.

The thing is, love in human relations usually gets distorted to dependance and obsession and when it reaches this state it stops being a positive and enriching thing to become something bad for you and the other person, that only chews both of you up from the inside.

To be left alone is very hard, specially when you're deep in love with that person (or obsessed), its a wound that only time can heal but it is also a process of learning i guess, if you overcome breaking up a relationship, even if it is very hard for you, there's always things you take with you, there are always lessons to learn and conclusions to take, positive ones.

Maybe you think you've suffered enough(?) and don't want to risk again because last time hurt big time, so you prefer to take the lonely route and kinda close yourself to oustsiders - hey im not dissing anyone, haven't had a gf for about 2 years now - my point is, just because of this, don't you dare to think that love is just that, love is much much more than we can possibly imagine.

If you somehow disagree, do this, just attempt to write down what you feel when you're deep in love with someone, that's it..
What, the pen isn't moving? :D
 

Bonzo

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Thats a whole lot a Pisces Indigo :woohoo: , im a Scorpio, not sure about rising. Being a Scorpio i "Love to Love" but i have my own ideals on what that is and Pisces women seem to share my outlook on the subject. Have you ever looked up Scorpio x Pisces on a horoscope compatability level? Maybe its a symbiotic kinda thing. All i know is it works for me, and i dont judge anyone elses views on the subject, to each thier own.

Will you be attending the CUP Indigo? :D

Live and let live

bonz
 

Harry Gypsna

Dirty hippy Bastard
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Im an aquarian...its been a while since anything of note has risen around here lately...Dry spell hhahaha...seriously though...Ive been leavingthe ladies alone...getting over a severely fucked over head from a grandmaster (but Im not bitter-honest) lol. Yup i gotta say I believe in it...trouble is, non if the chicks iomever attracted to seem to-or not with me anyway...but im a bit of a boring old git prematurely really...cant be bothered with going to clubs/bars whatever... and not one for the socialising too much...Is rather sit a with a fat spliff and watch a DVD.....and you dont meet many chicks at home on the couch..(not in my home anyway) lol
Love = pain..
do you know...I did better in that area when I was a junkie ....bizarre huh,
 
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G

Guest

There's nothing you can know that isn't known.
Nothing you can see that isn't shown
No where you can be that isn't where your meant to be.
.........It's easy.......

All you need is love....dat da da da da
All you need is love....dat da da da da



I tend to break out in song on occasion.
Taurus in the house... and I love to love, love to be in love.......love to make love
Wouldn't close my self off to it for all the money in the world.....
 

dociron

Active member
pieceofmyheart said:
*sends her friend a huge hug and kiss*


just saw the previous post.....hehehe no, you da man dociron, you da man!

awwwwwwwwww,, baby............


G'night all....................Dociron
 
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G

Guest

Love is as real as alien abductions and religion.


It's if you believe in it and what you make of it.


I personally am going through a hard breakup at this moment. Long distances suck.....BUT....I WILL LOVE AGAIN! ! !


Maybe im a sucker? :rolleyes:
 

Gypsy Nirvana

Recalcitrant Reprobate -
Administrator
Veteran
.....Love.........dangerous stuff its like a volatile explosive if not handled well.........for every positive there seems to be a negative coming back to you eventually.......The harder I love.....the deeper I love........the more I can get hurt if it all goes 'tits up'...(and believe me it has all gone tit's up before!).....But still....every time I hear this song it makes me want to love more....love again......and love deeply:

Madness - It Must Be Love Lyrics:

I never thought I'd miss you
Half as much as I do
And I never thought I'd feel this way
The way I feel
About you
As soon as I wake up
Every night, every day
I know that it's you I need
To take the blues away

It must be love, love, love
It must be love, love, love
Nothing more, nothing less
Love is the best

How can it be that we can
Say so much without words?
Bless you and bless me
Bless the bees
And the birds
I've got to be near you
Every night, every day
I couldn't be happy
Any other way

It must be love, love, love
It must be love, love, love
Nothing more, nothing less
Love is the best........

As soon as I wake up
Every night, every day
I know that it's you I need
To take the blues away

It must be love, love, love
It must be love, love, love
Nothing more, nothing less
Love is the best

It must be love, love, love...

*btw.....I love you all.
 
G

Guest

I feel ya Gypsy.....

Love is the best thing in the world at times and other times it's the worst.
But no matter how much you love, you will never make the other person love.
It's really hard to find someone who is willing to look out for you like you do for them.

Any MATURE young ladies out there?? i cant find em........


but its fun trying. :joint:
 

GreatLakes THC

an Arthur P. Jacobs production
Veteran
Love is good and bad, but when it's real you love them both. You wouldn't live without either, and a day without the person you love is a pain that you really feel.

GreatLakes THC
 

BushyOldGrower

Bubblegum Specialist
Veteran
Some people may be past the time for a relationship with another person that involves committment and I can understand that.

But, you all narrowed do you believe in love to the other question.

Does love bite? Of course it does. Would you want a dog that couldn't?

When people ask me if my 120 lb German Shepherd bites I look at them kinda funny. He never has yet but he sure could.

Mrs. BOG could choose to leave me one day and if she did I would probably die. Sorry but without love I would not live. That's just me. I can't see life any other way because we have loved each other always it seems.

So sad that most love affairs end up badly but dont say you dont believe in love. I assume you do believe in hate so a world with just hate and no love isn't worth living in IMHO.

You all love many things. Indigo loves her son and I know this because she told me that he is what she lives for. Could that be loveless?

None of you will do well without love. After our basic needs Love is what we need next and surely you believe in motherly love if nothing else.

Why is love something to be believed in? I am a romantic who think little else matters in life. I believe in living to be happy and to me that means good relationships.

You love your friends. Maybe you just think you like them. Same diff. BOG
 
G

Guest

:yeahthats:
BOG -I couldn't agree with you more my friend!

I'm sure that we all been burned.... Me - well, I been burned BAD twice and been dumped on several times. Love is exciting and everybody needs some excitment in their lives... :woohoo:
 

BushyOldGrower

Bubblegum Specialist
Veteran
It hurt me to see my large friend heart broken and I really wanted to give him hope because this is what he wanted. I'm not saying that everyone should seek love first above career or any other choices they may make. Each individual has free choice and many single people are happy I am certain. :D

But Love is so big that it is life itself. Romance is just one kind of love but it's the most fun you can have even with your clothes off. BOG

Luckily people who dont want a relationship can still have sex.
 
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