needing advice from the ladies

TrichomusCaesar

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• Feb 24, 2007

• #1

Hey ladies,

I know this girl and lately I've been thinking about her in an unusual amount..

And she's a real natural beauty...just wow...without any make-up at all she still pulls it off.

I've seen her as she just got out of bed with her hair all messy and shit....and I gotta tell ya....she still looked fantastic

Here's the Q....How do I let her now what I think of her without being a cliche cheesy little unoriginal fuckwad?

Now mind you....I already have a girlfriend..but I'll tell ya that it's going nowhere with her...but I can't try to see them both...I won't....because that's just not the kind of guy I am.

Someone previously suggested that I tell her I would drink her bathwater...but that's not really my style either. lol

Ladies....what can I do in a respectful way(preferably in a subtle way so that she figures it out for herself)?

And it's not even about sex really....I don't think....I'd be content just to hold her tight on the couch.

I can't believe I even started this thread....I've never felt so like yummybud in my entire life. lol

 

Last edited: Feb 24, 2007

Mrs.Babba

THE CHIMNEY!!

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• Feb 24, 2007

• #2

Hey TC...maybe just tell her that you have been thinking about her alot lately and think that she is amazing and you would like to spend more time with her to see wher it goes, most women love the attention and flattery, if you kinda say what yoiu said here, she would probably melt in your arms....does she know you have a girlfriend?? ...cuz she might hesitate because of that....maybe a little gift to give her to break the ice so to speak before you tell her that you like her
Good Luck TC, just be you and if she into that she'll let ya know.

 

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pieceofmyheart

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• Feb 24, 2007

• #3

Mrs. B gives great advice.

"I have been thinking about you an unusual amount lately"

Your own words are very good...tells her how you feeling and opens the door for her to respond in kind.

I think you are so sweet......bet she does too

 

mtnjohn

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• Feb 24, 2007

• #4

yea bro...listen to the ladies

they know what's real
mj

and TC.....good luck

 

G

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• Feb 24, 2007

• #5

I agree with the other ladies... Just tell her like you told us... I would be flattered to hear that...

Good Luck TC... sounds like you are a bit smitten with the gal... grins... wonderful!

Peace~

 

TrichomusCaesar

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• Feb 24, 2007

• #6

Well.....I took your advice ladies, and I appreciate it that you took the time to reply to me. I love you all for it. You're all great(even you mtnjohn lol)...

I said to her that she's always on my mind....even when I sleep(which is true considering I had a dream about her the other day....and no it wasn't porno style).

She said she was flattered....then told me she had a b/f.

I took the news as graciously as I could....but I'm wounded like a baby seal who just made it to safety from the jaws of a shark.

I'm totally ready to duke it out with her b/f Lion-Style for her.....and it would most certainly show her that I'm pure alpha male.....but the thought of hurting a dude for a girl just doesn't make sense to me.

So alas....I feel not quite whole.....when this empty feeling will go away?...I don't know...

Better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all?....Kiss my ass Shakespear.

.....I feel so empty.

Said it before and I'll say it again.....very few things are as sweet as the warmth of a woman whom you really care for.

 

Last edited: Feb 24, 2007

G

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• Feb 24, 2007

• #7

awww TC... don't be blue... look at it as you have opened a door... think positive... she knows now... even though she has a boyfriend... might make her think about things... sometimes when you want something... putting it out there in the universe... you might just get what your heart desires... Don't give up hope... she could realize about her boyfriend... as you have about your girlfriend...

Hang in there... sending you gentle warm hugs

Peace~

Hippie Chic

 

TrichomusCaesar

Member

• Feb 24, 2007

• #8

I need all the hugs I can get, h_c.....Life just ain't as sweet as it usually is, right now.

hmmm.....time for a vape hit....problems need be forgotten....

I know she's just a girl.....but it's hard on me heart to think that there is an awsome girl that I don't really have a chance at happiness with right now.....Life's already hard enough....I don't need this shit.

 

G

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• Feb 24, 2007

• #9

Even in those darkest of times you can't see a light.... there is one... it's in your heart... is what made you want to tell her how you felt... embrace what you are feeling... you just never know what tomorrow will bring... keep positive sweetie...

More hugs... all that you need

Peace~

Hippie Chic

 

Mrs.Babba

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• Feb 25, 2007

• #10

TC...well its a timing thing too...just not the right time...ya never know 6 months from now where you 2 will be and maybe something will happen and you will hook up...sorry she didnt fall into your arms and say what you wanted to hear but that day may come sooner then you think and now that she knows your feelings she will be thinking about that, I'm sure of that! ...take care

 

TrichomusCaesar

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• Feb 25, 2007

• #11

Thanks for listening to this love-stricken moron and thanks for the words ladies...Truely.

It just sucks. She's slowly taking over my entire brain....But I'll slowly win her over, I hope. I like to think of myself as a smooth talkin' fella when I feel the need to be.

I mean....I can be a prick, no doubt.But when you get to know me and when I get comfortable with you I'm quite the charming little mofo. lol But enough of that....this ain't the dating network. hehe...*sigh*

Nice guys do finish last....god damnit.......I'm going to start being an asshole from now on and see if I start to finish ahead of the pack.

 

Verite

My little pony.. my little pony

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• Feb 25, 2007

• #12

TrichomusCaesar said:

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Someone previously suggested that I tell her I would drink her bathwater...but that's not really my style either. lol...

Click to expand...

Learn how to take an idea and make your own style out of it..


... ask her if she sometimes farts in the bathtub.. then tell her you'de drink her bathwater.

 

TrichomusCaesar

Member

• Feb 25, 2007

• #13

I'm trying to win this girl's heart, verite....not trying to disgust the shit out of her.

 

Verite

My little pony.. my little pony

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• Feb 25, 2007

• #14

Wish I could help.. but you cant teach someone humor.. its something you either are or youre not.. which is the moral of the story.. be yourself, if she likes you great.. try being something your not and most women can see thru that at 'hello'.