my wife and i lost her older brother last night. we were already in bed and had 3 police officers come knocking on the door. when they said they needed to speak to her, it confused me a bit. but, shortening it all, he had been subject of a wellness check requested by a neighbor because his mail had not been taken in. he suffered from seizures after a traumatic head injury in the 90s while we were dating. i helped him self-medicate until he got real medical help. he served in Nam in the Marines and carried those scars to his grave. the world keeps shrinking on us here....