i'm a younger guy too, and guys who are young like us don't need to be in a relationship. we need to focus on ourselves, careers, going to school and other stuff like that. sure its okay to have sex, but you don't need a girlfriend or really girls as friends. Girls that keep you as a "friend", are NOT INTO YOU
. She wants you as Mr. Nice (not the seed dude) who she calls to complain to about Mr. Bad Boy that she IS INTO
and fucking. sure not all women are like this, but a lot are. I know its hard to hear man, but her needing time alone is a cliche term that many females use as a kind way to tell a guy that theyre NOT INTO YOU
. You're better of without that girl, and I mean seriously do you ever want to be anybody's pity friend? Leave this girl alone, and stop calling her. I know it's tempting but just don't call her period and ignore her calls. you'll be better off for it.
As for getting over this chick I subscribe to you a healthy dose of Leykis 101. Remember this name: TOM LEYKIS
. Listen to this man and use his show as help to turn your life around.
^^Go to that site and listen Live. His show comes on 3pm-8pm PST or 6pm-11pm EST. I suggest you start listening to his entire show everyday at least for a few months, and you'll have all your answers and enough knowledge to get over this girl. If you miss an episode, don't worry his show is podcasted on itunes. Take my advice man, you really need it. If you follow what i just recommended, you won't go wrong.
Anyways I wish you luck and just be grateful that you were spared wasting 15 years of your life with a girl that is NOT INTO YOU
Use this fee time as time to better your life, go back to school, hit the books harder, start reading more, etc. Whatever you choose to do, the world is yours.