Well hell, you can't see shit in the pics....screw it! Too late now anyway, so I'll choose to believe it was definitely male or at least a hermie and I didn't make a huge mistake by yak'ing a female. All good.
I've taken some seedplants I shouldn;t have...! haha... Even now, I get male and female confused, until they really fully show. To make it more confusing, different genetics have different shaped "Calyxes," or Pre-flowers. Good Luck...