Girlfriend is demanding I open the locked door. What to say?

est1977

Active member

• Jan 21, 2011

• #61

Durdy said:

Bitches are crazy, and theres plenty of em, tell her you need some space,
Then go hang out with the ladies that really matter.

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I'm female, this isn't always the case, Women are smart and she probably knows "somethings" up. Just tell her if you thinks she's worth it .You also have to think in terms of what if you were there and some shit goes down cops come, what have you and shes there and doesn't know gets charged with felony cultivation ????


Personally,I try not to have any affiliations during a grow Girlfriends /Boyfriends will get you caught up.Especially ones who feel as if they have been wronged

 

Midnight

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• Jan 21, 2011

• #62

ZackMorris said:

I dont think i could ever tell her unless i put a ring on her finger or possibly have a kid with her. She a good girl and im no spring chicken nor have i had much luck finding good ones in the past. To all the people suggesting that i just drop her, i say... i wish it was that easy. I wish I could go back to being single but im pretty sure id be miserable.

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Maybe..but prison and stripes will make you a whole lot more miserable. I'd tell her to myob or gtfo.

 

Madrus Rose

post 69

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• Jan 21, 2011

• #63

est1977 said:

I'm female, this isn't always the case, Women are smart and she probably knows "somethings" up. Just tell her if you thinks she's worth it .

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Yah , then marry her, have children ....the whole catastrophy !
(as Zorba the Greek said )

How good a gardener is she ?

Be a good thing if she loved plants ...

 

One Love 731

Senior Member

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• Jan 21, 2011

• #64

Here is the problem, by not telling her she is spreading the word to everybody she knows that you have something weird going on. Feel her out, see how she feels about MJ. Honesty is best unless it gets you into trouble. Is she the kind of person that keeps her mouth shut. Does she have a bunch of close friends she may be talking to about these strange rooms you keep locked? Do you see yourself wanting a long term relationship with this girl? If she new would she 1st keep quiet and 2nd still be interested in you? I'm not asking for an answer but these are the things you need to ask yourself. If she's the kind of girl that would rat you out or not except you if she knew, its time to find somebody else. Peace, pot and karma. One Love

 

TruthOrLie

Active member

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• Jan 21, 2011

• #65

why do you even bring them to your place?

such a bone head move.

should have always insisted going to her place.

 

Chem&M

Member

• Jan 21, 2011

• #66

Dude, do you really want to be with someone who won't accept ALL of you? Just because you won't have a GF doesn't mean that you'll be miserable, like you suggested.

Besides, all my green ladies, don't lie, complain, or cheat...and they smell better. I like it that way. When I find my partner in crime, she should be just that.

 

rooted

Member

• Jan 21, 2011

• #67

you tucked yourself into a fucked up bed

she's a woman she's not going to listen to anything you say, nor will she drop the subject until she sees what's behind the door

make sure she can't grab your keys during a sex coma

wish i could help you as a fellow grower; i don't think anyone here is going to have an answer for you, a lie isn't going to fix this, and neither is your judgement by the looks of this thread


.....flip a coin?

 

Bush Dr

Painting the picture of Dorian Gray

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• Jan 21, 2011

• #68

No weed = change#1

Give in and you're fucked forever, she'll get the upper hand and YOU will have given it to her

 

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kannubis

• Jan 21, 2011

• #69

It is the studio where you produce porn flicks. Nobody goes in there unless they are part of the cast.

 

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Dopeboy668

Member

• Jan 21, 2011

• #70

Tell her your ex fiance died in that room so you dont go in their anymore. If she still wants to go in tell her no because you have flash backs when you look inside that room.

 

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Rabbi Reefer

• Jan 21, 2011

• #71

Dopeboy668 said:

Tell her your ex fiance died in that room so you dont go in their anymore. If she still wants to go in tell her no because you have flash backs when you look inside that room.

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Fucking Brilliant!

 

Noobian

Green is Gold

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• Jan 21, 2011

• #72

Damn then he's gonna have to start lying and creating up some kind of backstory about the "dead g/f" Lying on top of lying is not a good thing, and especially if it's to someone you are supposed to care about. I think if you can't be honest with her then it's not worth your time or the risk and you should move on

 

resinryder

Rubbing my glands together

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• Jan 21, 2011

• #73

On the other hand I wonder how many of her friends she's already told about your locked doors and you not showing her what's there. And how many her friends have mentioned to their friends. Seems that you may already be in trouble.

 

Noobian

Green is Gold

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• Jan 21, 2011

• #74

I doubt people are gossiping about locked doors, now if there's yellow glow under there then maybe, but just locked doors is not something that would make people want to care. I think.

 

supermanlives

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• Jan 21, 2011

• #75

you can always go back to jerking off for a while LOL

 

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w.wonka

• Jan 21, 2011

• #76

just tell her u rent the space out to a friend... she still rides u about it, then its time to tell her or move on!!!!!

w.wonka

 

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R3ZIN

Member

• Jan 21, 2011

• #77

Seriously......I mean SERIOUSLY its a GF of two months!!! I had longer relationships when I was 11yrs old man! Not being a douche but she doesn't deserve to know shit. Be open and honest that " these are rooms used for storage and I really don't want you to keep obsessing over storage rooms, I need you to leave this subject and the rooms alone and when I am ready to discuss or show you the boxes n shit in the rooms I will. If you cannot respect the private and personal areas of my life, then I guess this isn't working out"

Done and done! I mean really what fucking right does she have to just barge into your life and demand to see every fucking nook and cranny / secrets at two months give me a fucking break!

I would absolutely not share with her at this point as you really don't know her at alllllllll!

 

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R3ZIN

Member

• Jan 21, 2011

• #78

Midnight said:

Maybe..but prison and stripes will make you a whole lot more miserable. I'd tell her to myob or gtfo.

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I can't agree more. My wife and her family are as straight as they come, no drinking, no drugs .no nothing. Me I like to enjoy gods gifts and she understands BUT if I had a full blown grow going and told her while we were dating I don't think it would have worked. Trust is created day by day. Throw her a bone in another area, perhaps something she did not know about you and then turn the spotlight more on her and get the fuck over to her place and be a nosey asshole

 

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compost

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• Jan 21, 2011

• #79

ZackMorris said:

Yeah man good advice. She's pretty liberal but she also has a good career and probably doesnt want a felony charge or a gun to her head were we to get raided. Its a bad deal. I need to just get a second place but those are so risky.

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Detached garage.

 

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Durdy

• Jan 21, 2011

• #80

est1977 said:

I'm female, this isn't always the case, Women are smart and she probably knows "somethings" up. Just tell her if you thinks she's worth it .You also have to think in terms of what if you were there and some shit goes down cops come, what have you and shes there and doesn't know gets charged with felony cultivation ????


Personally,I try not to have any affiliations during a grow Girlfriends /Boyfriends will get you caught up.Especially ones who feel as if they have been wronged

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Hahaha crazy people attract other crazy people..........won't lie about it .