As for safety, I currently have a 25' copper coil, and from my reading these have a psi rating of >1000? Does this sound correct? If so, even if I raised my oil to temps, the psi would be in ~20 range and way below tolerances. If this is not enough heating surface area for my desired flow rate, I could then upgrade to a 50' stainless.
Copper tubing is adequate in the pressure ranges you will be operating in. It actually has better heat transfer characteristics than stainless.