wow! I was worried about checking back on this thread, and let's be honest, I am still not tonight in this state!
but I am shocked and inspired that this is now 3 pages at least! I have my share of detractors but believe I have far more friends here and detractors who have a valid point must be respected and heard too as they may
make you a better person in the process.
This situation is a horrible/horrific abomination and we must make that known.
This is a subject that needed discussing, even if it isn't the pleasant stuff we prefer to discuss. I look forward to learning from you all and seeing what is here when I am better able. This situation is still evolving, I hope it works out not too bad for us and all concerned. Will be back to comment and thanks again everyone!