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Any legal experts w/ divorce experience?
- Thread starter RicoT
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Sorry to hear. No legal experience, bit I do have a back hoe availble. Hoe for a ho? Just sayin.
Attempt at humor aside? Dude get the fuck out of there completely!!!
Bye!!see ya! N hastas lueago!
Good luck
Pal
Attempt at humor aside? Dude get the fuck out of there completely!!!
Bye!!see ya! N hastas lueago!
Good luck
Pal
Good luck brother! Hope everything works out for you
ProMixNSunshine
Member
This question is going to be state specific, a general practice or real estate attorney should be able to give you a quick answer for no charge. Sounds like you might have a big plus going for you with no kids. How are you paying rent? Cash & receipts? Checks? If it's cash you'll want to stop doing that immediately.
Somes states like Vermont would let you fucking own the uncle if he tried to do a thing, or maybe on stuff he has already done, pretty sure in that state tenants can sue for treble damages on all previously payed rents in certain circumstances. My current place I could trash it and get $8k back on my sec. deposit because she accidentally charged me more than last months rent. I like landlords who don't know what they are doing but think they do, she could have paid an atty. $400 to handle the lease for her & he would have caught that.
Def. talk to a lawyer. And stop taking that bitch back bro, sloots gonna sloot, there's better girls out there.
Somes states like Vermont would let you fucking own the uncle if he tried to do a thing, or maybe on stuff he has already done, pretty sure in that state tenants can sue for treble damages on all previously payed rents in certain circumstances. My current place I could trash it and get $8k back on my sec. deposit because she accidentally charged me more than last months rent. I like landlords who don't know what they are doing but think they do, she could have paid an atty. $400 to handle the lease for her & he would have caught that.
Def. talk to a lawyer. And stop taking that bitch back bro, sloots gonna sloot, there's better girls out there.
sounds like this is your first divorce. if you don't have a fuck ton of money to waste on lawyers and can get out of the house without losing your ass you should just do it
it aint fair and it aint right but you should get used to it
cut that shit off like gangrene and get on with your life
it aint fair and it aint right but you should get used to it
cut that shit off like gangrene and get on with your life
empty the place even if you have to put it in storage, she hasn't been running off crying to moms place either, she's been running to her new man. get out fast.
me & my ex were having troubles (her cheating) and seeing a counselor, she kept nagging me "I'm gonna leave you, I'm gonna leave you!" knowing that I was being the softee to her kunting around.
One night she nagged me up again w/that shit & I called her bluff, I picked up the phone and asked my brother to help me move marianne out of my apartment, when I turned around her mouth was hung open in disbelief, fuck her.
good luck I know all about backstabbing BITCHES..... if it was me I would just move and be done with it
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BrnCow
Use you mind to sort this shit out - not your dick nor broken heart. The ask a real estate lawyer in your area is good advice. Keep your mouth shut about everything...no tell - no more hell! Make a plan and work it step by step. Let her alone about the fucking around part. If you haven't seen it go down, you could somehow be wrong - anyway, it doesn't matter. If you have decided to go, then stop the questions and move on. Furniture - if she wants it all then you possibly have been furnishing a house for her and her boy. You could even have been set up to do it by her or them. The uncle could be a part of it. If you fly and don't pay the rest of the lease, you might lose your credit. So, get the rent shit worked out with the uncle or pay a lawyer to do it so you can lay low. Might be he'll let you off the lease - in writing . Then, release from lien in hand, wait till she goes somewhere, have a Uhaul and a couple of YOUR friends she doesn't know ready and waiting, then call them and load it out and haul ass...must be 50 ways to leave your lover...if you want to treat her right, at least leave enough house for her to get by until she can get work or the dude moves in...and next time, don't be so eager to move in with someone and if you do, make sure she is moving into YOUR place - not you into hers or her peoples. I have been through this a hundred times it seems and it always sucks. Good luck and be sure and don't get mad and no drinking for awhile until you have control over your feelings...jail sucks.
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BrnCow
Oh yes, women are designed to have sex. It is the end result of their built in romance fantasy. Nature installed it in them all. Some are so prone to romancing that they just cannot seem to help themselves. It is what they do and when the fantasy with you wears thin, they start looking for another run at it. So, just try and understand - it wasn't what she wanted and likely had nothing to do with you. She needed another dude's hormones and smell to feel right. Weird but true as far as I can tell at this point. That type of woman goes from dude to dude looking for the answer but nature has hidden it from us all. Hell, I have seen them try all sorts of shit to get and edge on love. Orgies, animals, multiple dudes, couples, other women...electric plastic lovers, Jesus, and all sorts of shit. I do not actually hold it against them but could kick my own ass for falling into relationships with those types...guess it says something about me...hell, maybe I am a slut too! I just don't like the idea that I am not what they are looking for...but those people - no one is....so don't feel so let down....after all, it is just pussy or sex if you prefer. Wash that sex off and it is ready to go again - just like you! Well maybe anyways...lol
Find a lawyer and place in the next 30 days....leave and cut contact...
Be nice to her face, but make sure your Lawyer is doing his/her thing...once it is finalized...say what you REALLY want
Be nice to her face, but make sure your Lawyer is doing his/her thing...once it is finalized...say what you REALLY want
Small time
Member
Been there, done that. I got the house, she got some furniture. I kept alll my toys, tools, etc. Sometmes you make out.
i'd be tempted to go in with a chain saw, cut every piece of furniture in half, and take half of every piece.
like Qui Gon Jin said, in the Star Wars movie 'Phantom Menace' ... "your focus determines your reality."
this is a situation that is almost guaranteed to not put a smile on your face.
as soon as money supply allows, i would re-arrange matters so that they can reach you by registered
letter. so it's just like dealing with the tax-man. so they're out of your space and you can enjoy some
fine Cannabis and chill.
the whole situation does sound like a Buzz-kill.
i didn't read the whole thread ... is it possible her uncle is on YOUR side ?
like Qui Gon Jin said, in the Star Wars movie 'Phantom Menace' ... "your focus determines your reality."
this is a situation that is almost guaranteed to not put a smile on your face.
as soon as money supply allows, i would re-arrange matters so that they can reach you by registered
letter. so it's just like dealing with the tax-man. so they're out of your space and you can enjoy some
fine Cannabis and chill.
the whole situation does sound like a Buzz-kill.
i didn't read the whole thread ... is it possible her uncle is on YOUR side ?
I feel for you brah.
Marriage is grand!
Divorce?
About 50 grand!
But most of the time, it's money well spent.
Make a list of the qualities that you want in a partner for life.
Be honest with yourself and realistic about what is possible.
Then, do not compromise!
When you find the right one, that's when marriage is grand!
At least, that's what worked for me.
Aloha,
Weezard
Marriage is grand!
Divorce?
About 50 grand!
But most of the time, it's money well spent.
Make a list of the qualities that you want in a partner for life.
Be honest with yourself and realistic about what is possible.
Then, do not compromise!
When you find the right one, that's when marriage is grand!
At least, that's what worked for me.
Aloha,
Weezard
rent a ho.... its cheaper to rent em lol.. good luck but remember its a family place and once alienated its not gonna be so friendly..... I say bang all her friends you can. go full out with whipped cream and chocolate\strawberries and you can bet it gets back to your now ex.. the best revenge is moving on and loving life and as many of her friends you can lol.... if your growing beware of womans scorn...
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