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Is it always you reaching out or making the first move?

DiscoBiscuit

weed fiend
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So that's what it is, you ugggged everybody out. :redface:

You might need a makeover. That Larry The Cable Guy look only goes so far. Maybe one of those tuxedo tee shirts?:D
 
Again thanks for the laugh! First of all, not that old, but old enough to qualify for that old stoner crash pad forum! :D Second, I do not look like Larry the Cable guy but more like an older version of that pic Yummy posted! Same difference in a different kind of way I guess! :D ;) We are not all gifted enough to look like gods and godesses but it could be a whole lot worse in my case. I had an amazing chat with a girl in a smokeshop not long ago. I do not look the part, I came in and she asked if I needed help with anything. I seem to get that reaction a lot and get annoyed thinking everyone thinks I am suspicious or up to something. So I said no and kept looking around up and down and in all directions as I normally do. Then I felt bad and asked about vaporizers and that escalated into a conversation about every kind of vaporizer and their prices and just a great friendly chat where we both seemed to be enjoying it considerably. I am not shallow but did not think she had much looks at first glance but when I talked I saw both an inner beauty that trumps everything and a real fine cute face that was so natural and captivating. Then she answered a call and seemed to forget about me, but it was nice while it lasted and I will never forget that! It taught me a valuable lesson that if the other person is receptive, I can be a whole lot better conversationalist than I thought.
 

supermanlives

Active member
Veteran
ooh get a grip. nobody been knocking down my door either. no testers ,no organic ferts, zero nada nothing. and i dont really give a fuck. you san diego potsnobs are the worst.
 

dddaver

Active member
Veteran
I'm a VERY private person, in fact most people on this site either are from necessity or just want to live their lives that way. I respect that, and ask that others respect my desires. That in no way means I'm not friendly, unless you have some other definition than mine.

huh? I want some of what you are smoking!

I wouldn't say that is friendly at all, in fact disrespectful. Also lends a bad name to cannabis. I think you might have found your own problem.
 
G

greenmatter

I respect that, and ask that others respect my desires. That in no way means I'm not friendly

:yeahthats

i remember when having respect for other people was encouraged. mom use to tell us that if we "didn't have anything nice to say we should not say anything".

seems like those lessons went out the window right about the time they banned all the books

also seems like everybody wants to be Wolf Larsen these days, but instead of the yeast in the ferment being the turd in the punchbowl has become the goal

just an observation
 

mrcreosote

Active member
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"I have those on my friends list, that I leave a message on their user page and don't hear from them, I have to badger some of them repeatedly before they respond."

I'm guessing you gave that statement absolutely no thought at all while you wrote it.

You might want to give some thought to why you are so needy that you feel you have to badger people to respond to you.
There's a good possibility, hard as it may be to believe, that you might not be the center of everyone elses universe.

That's my job anyway...
 


hey Nor'Easter, did you get a piece of that last snowfall?
that memorial weekend snowfall? not here but well to the north on mount mansfield vt they had 3 feet! I have to check my records but was worried about frost and might have seen flurries or sleet. It was crazy for sure! I remember a mid-may storm that created a couple inches on my flowers about 10 years ago, and was talking with the farmer guy who said a town he lives in like 10 miles north of me has had snow in June and 2 1/2 feet on May 9 or 10 1977. I don't remember that but remember the blizzard of 78 as a little kid!
Lately, it has been fine today, but overall a crazy wet June and having a hard time even planting or weeding the garden! The ground is still spongy squishy wet in shady spots, 4th wettest June ever in Boston I think! How is minnesota weather now?
 
I'm a VERY private person, in fact most people on this site either are from necessity or just want to live their lives that way. I respect that, and ask that others respect my desires. That in no way means I'm not friendly, unless you have some other definition than mine.



I wouldn't say that is friendly at all, in fact disrespectful. Also lends a bad name to cannabis. I think you might have found your own problem.
I forgot now what you are even referring to but if I have offended you as I apparently have, or been disrespectful, trust me it was not my intent and I apologize. I was probably just trying to joke around and badly failed at it. I could have even been trying to agree with you and seemed to do the opposite. again, if you remind me maybe I can tell you my intent, but I assure you I never intend to be malicious or hurtful EVER.
 
yeah man, same here. hotter lately than it has been but just like 83 or so which feels hot by comparison. Supposed to get hotter until at least Tuesday but I can take it! and I hear you, we get t-storms to temper the humidity and just when you can't think you can bear the heat or humdity, there are strorms and then it is is all better again!
 

Holdin'

Moon-grass farmer
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To be honest, the title of this thread at first made me think it was about girls. And I had a lot to say before I ever read the thread hehe....

But yeah whether it be in real life or not, if someone doesn't respond to me I don't make second attempts, fuck that, there's no need for it. As much as I enjoy another's company... I am a people person and I find many very interesting. But on the flip side, I could go the rest of my life without speaking to another human being if it so be. Except for that making-money thing, kind of requires it haha. But really, are people worth the time to "badger"? I don't do the whole hard-to-get thing :tiphat:
 

wildgrow

, The Ghost of
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I don't normally reach out and others don't normally reach in. I don't always look approachable though. My nickname at work is based on that.

I don't have multiple, spontaneous conversations with the majority of my friends list friends. But I don't with the count-them-on-one-hand friends out there either. And all the good time/party friends, lonnng gone.

How I am here is how very few people actually know me. Yet, this is still a watered down me. Typed out strings of words cant convey all that of what makes me me.

I used to get bothered by the same things Nor'easter said at the very beginning, but not anymore. I figure, if you don't like me - hey, you don't have to.
 

Stoner4Life

Medicinal Advocate
ICMag Donor
Veteran
Is it always you reaching out or making the first move?



well, hookers don't call me if that's what you mean.

 
yeah well hookers are cheaper than women that won't put out, just sayin'! ;) better have some good rubbers though! :D rain rain and more rain, what garden is in is doing great but cant weed or harvest it, and sure as hell can't plant anything! Humid is an understatement. Hoping for a 2-3 week drought at this point
 
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