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Need some dating advice

Hubbleman

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This is going to sound a lot like Yummy thread but I am actually going to do what you advice me here.

I am house sitting at my parents place :) I got a dog and there is a little park right outside my house.

There is this cute girl who walks her dog there every day. I been timing my dog walking to match her recently… its another 1 week before my parents come back and I got a whole house to myself. I also got a new car. What should I do? I really fancy her, she is my type…

I was thinking of playing with words, and asking her to come over to my place for a dinner, although I don’t know how to word this preposition. Also I was thinking it might be a good idea to invite her and her dog for a drive in my car and maybe go camping in this forest 1 hour from here but I think that should come after dinner…

What do you guys think? :chin:

And no do not tell me I should ask Cherubim for help! I actually need advice on how to word my request for dinner, what to say to get to that point, I was thinking making a causal chit chat, do you live on your own, what do you do in spare time sort of things.
 

Green81

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Boy you got a lot to learn, number one tip - 'be yourself, secondly don't try to rush this. Good luck.
 

HOPS5K

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chat her up and see if she's into you...if you think she's into you, then ask her out on a date..could never hurt.
 

Stoner4Life

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Dating advice @ ICMag.......

Dating advice @ ICMag.......




it worked for Yummybud, why not you???

 

resinryder

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Don't invite her to the house first. Could seem a bit odd in a serial killer kind of way, lol
Ask her out to a nice restaurant and see if she's responsive. You never know. Camping would come later for the same serial killer reasons. Not many girls would drop everything to run off to the woods right after meeting someone new. Besides, if it didn't work out it would be a very long ride home!!
Oh, if being yourself is not an easy thing to do, check out the movie, The Ladies Man, and go from there, lol
 

GET MO

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Don't invite her to the house first. Could seem a bit odd in a serial killer kind of way,

BUAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!! REAL TALK! haha!

Yo man, jus remember, confidence is key no matter what. Jus be like "hey baby, u NEED ta quit walkin that dog n walk the track n bring my money back, know what Im sayin?"
 

flubnutz

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LOL i say ask her to join you for a coffee or a cold drink, something out in public to minimize the chance of her being creeped out. do it quick tho', you might lead into some private time at the house.
 
Dude dont ask her to your house or ask her to go camping. Tell her your house sitting and new to the area. Ask her if she is willing to meet you at the park and walk your dogs together. Then from there talk to her and she is she is in to you. If she is, then ask her our for a bite to eat. Or possibly a picnic in the park. Keep it simple......
 

catalyte

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ask her what she does for fun? go from there, if you have something in common it should be easy. :yes:
 

wantaknow

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dress nicely,be that all american kid that is living the dream,she will want to be a part of that
 

Elsweeto

Member
Ask her into the back of this nice van...

No I'm sorry I just had an itch..
Confidence man...
Walk up, smile, introduction, mind if I walk with you, breath.. your in.

Good luck.
 

thaicat

Member
Boy you got a lot to learn, number one tip - 'be yourself, secondly don't try to rush this. Good luck.

Amen!

There are too many fake people out there, as is. I just love how people try to convince the other that they're something they really aren't and then wonder why they end up in a miserable relationship that's destined to fail.

You two obviously have a common interest...Dogs. Start with that and move on to other interests and find what else they're interested in.
 

MJBadger

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what to say to get to that point, I was thinking making a causal chit chat
Lovely dog . Nice ass your wearing in those jeans . Fancy giving me a w*** ? .Have you any money for some petrol then we could go for a shag in the woods ?

You are actually asking a bunch of stoners for shagging advice . You need to read the letters page of a mag like Rustler to get some good ideas .
 

Hash Zeppelin

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Dude dont ask her to your house or ask her to go camping. Tell her your house sitting and new to the area. Ask her if she is willing to meet you at the park and walk your dogs together. Then from there talk to her and she is she is in to you. If she is, then ask her our for a bite to eat. Or possibly a picnic in the park. Keep it simple......

exactly. Camping right off the bat will make you seem like a Jeffrey Dahmer.

chat her up, be confident. ask her basic chit chat questions so she can talk about her self. smile, but not forced like a crazy guy.

I like to take girls to dinner at a chilled out place with a cool patio if it is nice out there, not if it is over 80 degrees. You dont wanna take her to a fancy place first date.

Concerts are good too. Music is easy to talk about.

then maybe after the concert if things are going well you could show her the stars with your new telescope. I am being serious there. no innuendo. lol

Also it is not like a Yummy bud thread because

A. you are not bitching about depression over it.
B. you are not claiming o be in love with out even taking her out.
C. you have not started 20 previous threads about it
D. You have not mentioned school or a porche.
 
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