Thats a little to much there, for dropping a ball.
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Step-father of the Year Award.......
- Thread starter Stoner4Life
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I don't have any kids but if I did and some schmuck was found to be whoopin' up on any of 'em disguised as a step-father I'd be thinking shallow grave.......
Many of us commit some of the same mistakes our parents made on us.
memphis man
Member
i think that this is a case of abuse but i in no way shape form or fashion am against whooping your children. i got my ass beat when i was a kid if i fucked up and my kids get the same treatment if they fuck up. more people in america need to get their heads out of their asses and spank their bad ass kids when they need it instead of worrying about the social media thinks. no body ever disagrees with someone when they are refering to these underage thuglets running the streets commiting crimes and how somebody should have whooped their ass when they were little so they would know how to act in an adult society. if you dont repremand and discipline your children then it is nobodys fault but your fucking own when they grow up to be real works of art who cause trouble and end up in jail for doing dumb shit.
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longearedfriend
I think that beaten kids might end up with some mental issues because of it and maybe other things
Discipline is for kids. Spanking is for parents.
Luv-U-Long-Time
Member
Holy christ, someone else who actually thinks like I do...although I disagree that dropping the ball was just cause for anything physical.
Most kids today would benefit from a good 70's ass-whoopin'...and a belt,to hold the trousers up after the ass-whoopin.
AND neighbors should mind their own business or speak the FUCK up
memphis man
Member
spanking,whooping,paddling, for lack of a better word beating your child teaches discipline when administered correctly unlike this display we all watched. if you will go back to the days when parents whooped their kids and taught them right from wrong you will see that since the media and the rest of brainwashed america said it was wrong our society has gone straight to shit. people dont spank their kids for fear of being put in jail and end up with a snot nosed punk who thinks they can do whatever the fuck they want because they can call 1 800 mydadbeatmyass and please take him to jail. i dont know about yhall but when i was coming up it was customary to see people spank their kids in public for fucking up now we all have to endure the swarms of goofy fucks at the supermarkets with the 3 or 4 screaming kids grabbin shit and acting like asses and the parents telling them "now hush" fuck that whoop his/her ass and dare them to make a sound or touch something else. but we cant do that now can we?
memphis man
Member
exactly
I've had a hand in raising 6 kids and I never beat any of them for anything other than sticking a fork in the power outlet. One time and I feel terrible to this day about having done it, but it is done and I never found anything else that rose to that level of having to import upon a child the fact that my word on safety issues would have to take precedence in their lives over everything else.
Maybe I should have done more...
My kids were all stepkids or fosters. We adopted a couple of the fosters. Today they are all doing okay. The oldest stepchild is giving my wife problems. He's turned out to be a bigtime boozer. He's there for his kids, but he's now fallen so low that he doesn't even hardly work. Just drinks. So we are going to have to find a way to pay to dry his ass out and see if we can rehab him before he kills himself. Perhaps things would have been different if I had used a stronger hand on him? He is only 4 years younger than me so I never felt that there was much I could teach him. Like his mother I hold out the safety net and hope for the fuckin' best. I don't know where the money will come from, but I will have to do the right thing, earn the money by blowing donkey dicks for a dime a dozen or something so that we can all stop and give this shithead the attention he is begging for. At least he never beat his kids, but the alcohol has gotten so far out of control that the kids are now complainers about it as well.
The other kids are doing pretty good. I wish I was half the parent that they are and maybe that is testament enough, but I always felt my kids survived me rather than they were raised by me as I didn't get my shit together until they had, by and large, grown up. I guess it was the stress that did it. I just wasn't prepared and there I was a parent at age 22 of 4 kids and then we adopted 2 more and....
Another quality rant...
Maybe I should have done more...
My kids were all stepkids or fosters. We adopted a couple of the fosters. Today they are all doing okay. The oldest stepchild is giving my wife problems. He's turned out to be a bigtime boozer. He's there for his kids, but he's now fallen so low that he doesn't even hardly work. Just drinks. So we are going to have to find a way to pay to dry his ass out and see if we can rehab him before he kills himself. Perhaps things would have been different if I had used a stronger hand on him? He is only 4 years younger than me so I never felt that there was much I could teach him. Like his mother I hold out the safety net and hope for the fuckin' best. I don't know where the money will come from, but I will have to do the right thing, earn the money by blowing donkey dicks for a dime a dozen or something so that we can all stop and give this shithead the attention he is begging for. At least he never beat his kids, but the alcohol has gotten so far out of control that the kids are now complainers about it as well.
The other kids are doing pretty good. I wish I was half the parent that they are and maybe that is testament enough, but I always felt my kids survived me rather than they were raised by me as I didn't get my shit together until they had, by and large, grown up. I guess it was the stress that did it. I just wasn't prepared and there I was a parent at age 22 of 4 kids and then we adopted 2 more and....
Another quality rant...
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Iron_Lion
I think the point is; playing catch with your kid should be fun for both of you. When you bust out the belt and whip a kid every time he messes up it becomes a sick sadistic form of torture from the parent.
That's the shit they used to do to slaves, mess up and get whipped.
You got a warped perspective, do the world a favor and don't breed.
Luv-U-Long-Time
Member
Yeah...that's the thing that's rubbin' my rhubarb the wrong way...the whole step-dad gig.
He'd definitely get lumped the fuck up
He'd definitely get lumped the fuck up
My Dad was the one always dropping the ball, that and his bad shoulder He could only throw side-arm
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this kid didn't get caught shoplifting which might embarrass an elected official enough to lose his cool & break out some leather but no, it was a game of catch which now teaches this kid, "when I fuck up no matter how small of an issue I can't go to 'dad' for any help" which is EXACTLY what you don't want to teach kids.
OliverMollusc
Member
Sad thing is he was probably taught this by HIS father figure, and it's normal for him. Times change, civilizations make adjustments, but the lessons aren't always passed on. His parent beat his ass, he'll beat his kids ass. Hopefully the cycle will be broken now. If not, then put him in a place where bigger people hurt smaller people, and let him learn the hard way. I like to think I'd have intervened. I'd hope that somebody always will.
memphis man
Member
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