I lost my mind!

[mrcreosote]

And now as far as the alcohol problem...

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-17297714

Proof that advice from mrcreosote beats Dear Abbey.
Wouldn't you rather be tripping balls out than taking in a stray cat or some stupid 12 step whiners club?

An added plus is I charge a lot less than $125 an hour.
Send seeds. Good ones. Not those crappy freebies.

 

[mpd]

Once upon a time a girl said to her man, "let's get married!" and he said, "no" and she went away.

And he lived happily ever after with no drama in his life and no drain on his bank account. With the money he saved he was able to ride a new motorcycle with his pals, drink what he wanted, come home when he wanted, go hunting and fishing every weekend and still take a week long hiatus for the Cannabis Cup every year.

Dude, you have no idea what you have been missing. Time to come home to manhood. I love women, but Mrs. MPD is surely the last Mrs. MPD. I am crazy about her, but she doesn't have long left in this world and I won't be looking for anyone to measure up to her ever again. You can take your balls out of the jar on the shelf in her old closet and have some fun.

 

[TickleMyBalls]

Eat 300ug of lysergic acid diethylamide.

 

[stihgnobevoli]

sucks man, time heals all wounds. i dunno why "everyone" always says to get over someone go fuck someone else. maybe it was just about the sex for others but i can get sex anywhere anytime they throw it at me from all sides. hard to lose that one you thought you would be with forever. takes time. give up the booze, stop being inside so much. with time you will eventually not feel the pain so much or hopefully (for both of us) you will find someone you love more.

its like a new high score in a video game, hard to beat that #1 slot but with time and perseverance you can do it.

im guessing some of these guys never got their name up on the high scores board or else they wouldn't be telling you to go get some new pussy and it will all be ok. if anything it will probably just make you think of her even more.

 

[TripleDraw27]

cock pushups

 

[TripleDraw27]

Eat 300ug of lysergic acid diethylamide.

and this

 

[sso]

the good thing about losing your mind, is all that info about who you really are, you get when you find it again

 

[supherbb]

Stop drinking...

Go get laid (preferably by one of her friends)...

Grow more plants to fill the void in your heart. Plants are easy to love, and they only leave if you kick them out.

 

[Elsweeto]

Buy some beer stop with the spirits and go for a walk during the day.
get some sativa too.

 

[Hash Zeppelin]

yes shake the alcohol... travel is also a great way to get motivated.

go to that tropical island you always had your eye on for a couple of weeks, come back refreshed and ready to grow up a storm.

and i promise you friend you wont even remember... er... um... what was her name again?

i like these ideas too!

 

[Iraganji]

I once lost a wife to madness, (or whatever she would call it, I don't know ) but I remained sane. I spent a considerable amount of time damaging myself with recklessness. Typical story really, lost the kids, the dog, the house, the grow...and so on.

What doesn't kill you, will make you stronger I remember hearing a lot from the empathetic folks. I don't like the advise myself, because when you're going through that, you don't yet know you will survive it. It becomes little consolation. It is true though once the storm is weathered. You will take less shit from people, learn to better read people/body language, pick better friends/lovers, trust your gut, listen to what people do instead of say, and most important, you will learn that you are responsible for your reality, not someone else.

Learn to be the stronger mind and you will never be a stepping stone.

Okay, onto the topic of liquor. I once was able to polish off 5 or more 750ml bottles a week. Drunken mess only gives a hint to the state I was in for years. My mind grew strong and I gave it up. No AA, I never told myself (or believed) I had a disease or that alcoholism is permanent, or that I'd never be able to have a solitary social drink ever again. I wouldn't say I never drink, but almost. Loosing interest in it is good for everyone except those who profit from it.

Grab that steering wheel, you go where it's pointed and never ever let anyone else operate it again. Good luck to you!

 

[pearlemae]

It sucks BUT you weren't married to her. Let me tell you life goes on I found that out and life GETS better all the time. What I thought was a live ending divorce has after a few years of partying my ass off married to a terrific woman and my best friend. OH yeah IT'LL GET BETTER.

 

[longearedfriend]

it's a worldwide phenomenon

may we finally get the help we need

 

[moses wellfleet]

i love the way members have come on here to offer helpful advice to this guy... this site can be a good place to hang around sometimes!

 

[TickleMyBalls]

http://www.npr.org/blogs/health/2012/03/09/148307450/lsd-gets-another-look-as-alcoholism-treatment

 

[longearedfriend]

i love the way members have come on here to offer helpful advice to this guy... this site can be a good place to hang around sometimes!

definitely

one love

 

[Luv-U-Long-Time]

Mommy's alright, Daddy's alright, they just seem a little weird

 

[bendoslendo]

Thanks for all your advice, stories and asinine comments!

I've been drinking less and my rooms are running around 75% capacity. Been smoking lots of AK hash. My small room is perpetual so it takes a bit to get that going like clockwork again, but it shouldn't be long.

I know a year is a long time to still be mourning the relationship but I really loved her. She apparently still loves me, so she says. She reminds me every once in a while, last time I just ignored her. Whether shes doing it on purpose or not she's fucking with my head. We were spending time together a few months ago for a while, that was a bad idea. I've been with other girls, it's just not the same. I don't love them.

Whatever, onwards and upwards or a shotgun blast to the skull. I've given myself an ultimatum. I'm thinking onwards and upwards is the way to go.

Thanks again guys. You're good people.

 

[Hash Zeppelin]

When you lose everything look at it like a clean canvas. freedom to start the next chapter of your life. It may not make everything better, but a positive outlook makes a big difference

 

[Luv-U-Long-Time]

Be thankful there were no kids involved,glad the fog is lifting...stick to your guns.