Ok...Just curious how other people feel when it comes to friends/acquantences who either have less money than you do, or are unwilling to spend their own cash because they think you are loaded or otherwise have more money than they do.
I'm not rich by any stretch of the imagination, I get by, am able to pay my bills, and every once in awhile can splurge on a new toy but not too often. By and large though I try to be frugal, especially in todays economy and job market.
I know a few people who range from being friends to just mere acquaintances who make much less than I do. Seems like every time I hang with one of these people I get stuck spotting them for drinks, food or gas because they have no money (or say they don't have it anyway)..I figured that one person in particular is in the hole to me for over $100.00 over a 6 month period. It never gets paid back, and when I in turn ask for a favor (i.e. a rides to pick up my car when it is in the shop), I get excuses as to why they can't do it (worst case was the guy who owes me over $100.00 asking ME for gas money when I needed to pick up my car).
I don't mind helping someone out who is in genuine need once in awhile, but when it becomes a frequent occurrence and every interaction with a person consists of them asking for money in one way or or another I gotta draw the line.
I'm not rich by any stretch of the imagination, I get by, am able to pay my bills, and every once in awhile can splurge on a new toy but not too often. By and large though I try to be frugal, especially in todays economy and job market.
I know a few people who range from being friends to just mere acquaintances who make much less than I do. Seems like every time I hang with one of these people I get stuck spotting them for drinks, food or gas because they have no money (or say they don't have it anyway)..I figured that one person in particular is in the hole to me for over $100.00 over a 6 month period. It never gets paid back, and when I in turn ask for a favor (i.e. a rides to pick up my car when it is in the shop), I get excuses as to why they can't do it (worst case was the guy who owes me over $100.00 asking ME for gas money when I needed to pick up my car).
I don't mind helping someone out who is in genuine need once in awhile, but when it becomes a frequent occurrence and every interaction with a person consists of them asking for money in one way or or another I gotta draw the line.