Marquis de Sod
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should i kill her or what? thanks.
my wife wants to know every single little thing i do online
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Iron_Lion
Ask her to sit in while you take a shit.
My GF doesn't give a crap what I do online. She spends all day on the computer doing Medical Transcription, so she could not give a shit what I do (mostly ICMAG and surfing news and FARK). She doesn't even look, unless I show her some fucked up picture or photo I found.
I leave the laptop on, she can look all she wants. I just delete the porn from the history and she's none the wiser.
For a chick that doesn't smoke or drink, she tolerates my beer drinking and dope smoking/growing with little or no issue. she might bitch if I drink too much, but as long as I toke up in the garage, it's a non issue.
I leave the laptop on, she can look all she wants. I just delete the porn from the history and she's none the wiser.
For a chick that doesn't smoke or drink, she tolerates my beer drinking and dope smoking/growing with little or no issue. she might bitch if I drink too much, but as long as I toke up in the garage, it's a non issue.
I think everybody is looking at this wrong. I think your wife hopes you are watching porn and wants you to take her to your favorite porn site and show her the ways. Never hurts to spice things up. Just no midget porn.
Captain Ginyu
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I asked mine to do the same thing,...got dirty looks for a response.
Curiosity didn't kill the cat. That would be closer to mayhem from curiosity. If a spouse is merely curious, understanding is a part of trust.
If one reacts defensively, deficit of understanding may lead to trust issue(s). If you're open, consider the suggestion to allow the spouse to observe your online activity. If your spouse doesn't get the understanding she needs through you, chances are she'll share her feelings with others. IMO, she'd better understand your input and you's have more privacy.
I consider you lucky in the sense your wife approaches you instead of others. IMO, this aspect deserves some attention on your part.
If one reacts defensively, deficit of understanding may lead to trust issue(s). If you're open, consider the suggestion to allow the spouse to observe your online activity. If your spouse doesn't get the understanding she needs through you, chances are she'll share her feelings with others. IMO, she'd better understand your input and you's have more privacy.
I consider you lucky in the sense your wife approaches you instead of others. IMO, this aspect deserves some attention on your part.
JWP
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Often with people who have "trust" issues its because they themselves are guilty of something.
1. Put a keylogger on that computer and see what she is up to.
2. Talk to he about why she does not trust you. Try a bluff, tell her you know she has done something and if she tells the truth right now you might forgive her. See if she spills some beans. If not tell her you want to see a marriage counselor and get the fone book out right there and make an appointment.
Why do you think the divorce rate in the usa is close to 50%????
Because its just the guys fcking around????
Sry for the bad news bro. I hope it aint that bad...
1. Put a keylogger on that computer and see what she is up to.
2. Talk to he about why she does not trust you. Try a bluff, tell her you know she has done something and if she tells the truth right now you might forgive her. See if she spills some beans. If not tell her you want to see a marriage counselor and get the fone book out right there and make an appointment.
Why do you think the divorce rate in the usa is close to 50%????
Because its just the guys fcking around????
Sry for the bad news bro. I hope it aint that bad...
medicalgreen
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Tell her you'll show her your history tabs is she shows you her's. 
medicalgreen
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I fully disagree. Don't ever go behind her back and track her without her knowledge. That is just plain disrespect. Talk to her. You both love each other. That's why you both got married, not to spy on each other! BAD MOVE! Respect the Goddess, your wife, regardless of what she is up to behind your back. You never know, she could be buying you a birthday present! Marriage and partnerships demand mutual respect. Tell her that you respect her privacy, and you appreciate it if she respects yours. If she does not....talk to her about her insecurities. But do not confront her, about her insecurities. Just assure her you love her. And if you are cheating, then don't blame her for having woman's intuition.
And your second suggestion is even worse. Do not EVER bluff your partner in that way. That is complete low level bullshit. I seriously doubt you are in a healthy relationship, JWP, or that you have ever been. You are a serious mental case. You do not construct love with distrust, shame, bluffs, or outright manipulations. You cultivate love like you do your plants. With care, gentleness, thoughtfulness, and genuine concern for their growth, even at your own expense. Otherwise it wilts and dies, like everything alive that needs love. Artificial love is not sincere love, and insincere love is always felt in the heart. You should really consider your motives, and direction in life, and love, because without love, there is little to life.
JWP
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Clearly you are an expert on relationships. What better way to start a relationship than with an insult...
You have your head in the clouds mate. Wake up to reality. Go to a nursing home and ask all the old people close to death who have experienced life about trust.
The truth is you could be with someone for 30 years and not really know them.
This guys wife has displayed distrust with her hubbys online activities. Does she have good reason? Has he done something previously to loose her trust?
If yes then continue as medicalgreen suggests with love and understanding.
If no then you have some problems. Why Why Why... Why is she over your shoulder watching what you do? Is she scared you will find something? Why does she not trust you? Is she herself guilty of something and knows what people are capable of?
Why Why Why...
Save yourself the trouble of finding out at 40 that one of the kids is not yours. Save yourself the trouble of asking the doctor what these spots on your dick are.
Dont be a sucker. Dont be a fool. Harden the f up, be a man and find out before you waste your life with the wrong person.
Put the keylogger on the computer. If she is doing nothing then you will have more trust in her and the relationship will be stronger for it.
Ask her the hard questions. She doubts and question you. Why? So doubt and question her. See how she likes it.
Whats the worst that can happen? You find out something you didnt want to?
Just dont be a pussy. Dont be afraid of the truth. You get one life and it goes fast. Dont waste it.
I had my laugh for the day. lol
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