Living with psychotics

[ocean_grown]

So for the time being I must live with my aunt. This is a person who I despise being around. Figured I could make a thread for those of us currently in less than desireable living situations to bitch about the dumb shit that dumb people bring into our lives.

Currently she is yelling/talking shit to me on a regular basis as right when I moved in she misplaced a ring and a coffee mug which held sentimental value to her. I have repeatedly told her that I am no theif but she insists on throwing infantile fits of rage whenever I am around because she misplaced her things. She is a former meth addict, 7 months sober so still a fucking idiot... Well no, that is permanent, she is like a dry methhead. A methhead who is currently not hitting the douglas. This bitch is psycho but not even psycho, shes just a toddler regressed adult who takes no responsibility for herself whatsoever. She has no job is currently on unemployment benefits and absolutely zero motivation to do anything. She is the reason CA is in the dire straights that it is, there are probably thousands just like her who's idea of job hunting is craigslist and who bleed the welfare system dry with their laziness and stupidity. Cannot wait until I get into the new cabin.

Who is currently nagging the shit out of you IC?

 

[windsurfer]

thats an attitude you should drop, now

OK?

 

[PoopyTeaBags]

lol fight fight ^^

 

[designer]

So you are living OFF of her?


Just asking. You seem to be having problems of your own. What is your chemical dependency record like btw?

I know the lady you are talking about to the T... but what are you doing to make things better in your own life? People with chemical dependency problems are in trouble and need help you know.

 

[NEW ENGLAND]

Looked like an interesting thread to pop in ,and check out.

Now is about the time to run for the exit.HOLY SHIT!

 

[intotheunknown]

yeah sounds like a bad situation to me. get out while you can. nothing good comes from meth and the people that use it and are involved with it. been there done that. why you still there in the first place?

 

[Stoner4Life]

get your own crib and then bitch about someone living off of you ocean grown, your OP leaves a LOT to the imagination or interpretation. unless you've left out the part where you've been assigned against your will to be her keeper then you're sounding a bit like Charlie Sheen.......

 

[HighDesertJoe]

Why is she sober? her choice? you working?
Being around Speed freaks and recovering Tweaker's isn't easy.
More power to her if she is really trying to make a go of it.
Good Luck

 

[ocean_grown]

The OP did make me sound like a freeloader, let me explain. I moved in, temporarily, with my grandparents who she also lives with (at 29 years old). They told me to get a job, I got a job within 2 weeks valeting cars. They told me I can't smoke pot, I'm on a fatty T-break. They tell me to look for places to live, I got a place lined up for April.

I have my shit together, fully 100% intact. My shit is golden. This bitch just hates me being around because she is an infantile little **** and looks for reasons every day to act like a bitch to me even though I am always super nice to her. This right here, this is my outlet so I don't blow up in her face and get kicked out before I can make first and last months rent on a place. My abuse history someone asked for, ok. Been smoking pot since the age of 14 or so, on and off I usually voluntarily take t-breaks for a few months or so and then get into hardcore toking when conditions are right. I've done acid, shrooms, ecstasy. For a while there I had a problem with ecstasy and opiates but kicked that shit after a trip gave me the insight that I was headed down a dark and twisted road. All the synthetic shit has been out of my life for a while, I'm really into trees. I don't know why I felt so compelled to fuck around so much as a 16 year old, live and learn.

But yea, FUCK THAT BITCH she is a fucking parasite.

EDIT: Just thought I'd add that she gave me an ecstasy pill when I was like 15, my tweaker aunt is the person who got me into hard drugs and now I have to be around her. I despise the shit out of her. Just so you know what kind of person this is, this is the kind of person who would give their 15 year old nephew ECSTASY. FUCK THAT C U N T.

 

[Natagonnaworrie]

"Some (wo)men you just can't reach. So you get what we had here last week, which is the way (s)he wants it... well, (s)he gets it. I don't like it any more than you." -Cool Hand Luke

get as far away from people like that as possible. the longer you are around them the more infected you will feel. I know. Some people are just FUCKED. Liars, thieves, addicts, manics... they just don't think / behave right. Most may actually have mental illness that needs to be treated, but you cant do that for them if the don't want it

 

[Stoner4Life]

well most meth heads are burnt for life anyways so count your blessings you are who you are and get the flock outta there asap, your history w/her leaves a lot to be desired.

godspeed to you.......

 

[designer]

Sorry if I come off the wrong way. I was dealing with the information you gave on the OP. It gave me the impression you were living off of her good graces and complaining. It makes sense now, you are both in need.

You cannot fix people. In fact bad people can break you. The only answer with a meth head is to get away. She probably sold her own ring. I don't want to sound heartless, but that stuff takes the heart, soul and youth from people. You say she is 29 but she probably looks 60. Get out and good luck. She is going to fuck up her own shit where she is at now too. There is a reason that a 29 year old female needs to move in with family. She has nobody else left.

 

[ocean_grown]

Sorry if I come off the wrong way. I was dealing with the information you gave on the OP. It gave me the impression you were living off of her good graces and complaining. It makes sense now, you are both in need.

You cannot fix people. In fact bad people can break you. The only answer with a meth head is to get away. She probably sold her own ring. I don't want to sound heartless, but that stuff takes the heart, soul and youth from people. You say she is 29 but she probably looks 60. Get out and good luck. She is going to fuck up her own shit where she is at now too. There is a reason that a 29 year old female needs to move in with family. She has nobody else left.

No its worse, she looks like she is 25 and just sits in the house all day. She's the kind of person who sprays on spray tanner rather than going outside, ever, because the sun "ages your skin" and doesn't eat anything because food is "fattening". Complete lack of any sort of knowledge, in denial about everything. You would not fucking believe how much denial goes on in this house. I'm gonna be out of here in a quick minute, just had to rant about the level of dysfunction is all.

 

[RoachClip]

Being any Addict is a sickness, Disease and wether this woman is a nut job she still when others have not let you rest your head their at night in a warm place! Stop Cutting her down, maybe you need to be on the streets and have your cloths taken from you and your ass beat down and sleep in wet smelly ass corners of streets filled with rats, bums, and then you can realize you don't have it so bad.

Tap your shiny red shoes and say 3 times * Theirs no place like home * NOW get your azz up and make some chedda and get your own krib..

 

[Campfire]

Hang in there til you move out, and be kind to her. She'll remember that, on some level - genuine kindness, given out of at least a little concern for someone, can have a profound effect on the one who receives it, though it may be down the road a ways before its impact is assimilated. It's good for you, too. What else is there to do that won't be destructive, anyway??

Look forward, spring's right around the corner!

Before you walk out the door for the last time, turn to her and quietly say, "Hey - I love you, man," and go.

 

[HighDesertJoe]

Hey OG thinks for clearing a few things up. You sound like your heading in the right direction and maybe your aunt is trying to clean her life up it takes a good 5 years to get over the Hell that Meth causes believe me I've been around the SHIT for decades coming from the Meth capital of Calif. I have noticed that women seem to really get messed up the most from the ravishes of Meth. Watch your back around her and keep an eye out for your Grand parents.
Good Luck