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Well I'm in a bit of a predicament at the moment with a relationship, not a Yummybud relationship (Aw!) but still a problem and something some of you have most likely experienced at some point.
Well anyway I'll update you on the stats. I've been with this girl for 11 months so nothing too major. Anyway we had known each other for years through work and a few months after finally 'hooking up' she found out I was a toker after a boozed-up night on the town. She reacted much worse than predicted.
I did stop smoking for a few months but there's always a moment where you wonder why your punishing yourself for a reason in which you have nothing to contribute so I only ever smoke anymore with close friends and whenever I'm not with her.
Anyway to the point. We're going to Amsterdam shortly and I did make it pretty clear before it was booked I wanted to smoke over there. Somehow it got brought up again in conversation, probably from one of the many coffee shop oriented maps I have with certain ones highlighted.
When asked says "I don't like smoking", "It's drugs" or "I don't want to talk about it".
Right, well I definitely am smoking in Amsterdam nevertheless. But what I'm asking is can you think of a nice way to break it to somebody who has never had any experience with it?
Well I'm in a bit of a predicament at the moment with a relationship, not a Yummybud relationship (Aw!) but still a problem and something some of you have most likely experienced at some point.
Well anyway I'll update you on the stats. I've been with this girl for 11 months so nothing too major. Anyway we had known each other for years through work and a few months after finally 'hooking up' she found out I was a toker after a boozed-up night on the town. She reacted much worse than predicted.
I did stop smoking for a few months but there's always a moment where you wonder why your punishing yourself for a reason in which you have nothing to contribute so I only ever smoke anymore with close friends and whenever I'm not with her.
Anyway to the point. We're going to Amsterdam shortly and I did make it pretty clear before it was booked I wanted to smoke over there. Somehow it got brought up again in conversation, probably from one of the many coffee shop oriented maps I have with certain ones highlighted.
When asked says "I don't like smoking", "It's drugs" or "I don't want to talk about it".
Right, well I definitely am smoking in Amsterdam nevertheless. But what I'm asking is can you think of a nice way to break it to somebody who has never had any experience with it?