My World was Crushed Tonight

[the Rock]

that sucks big time.my wife lost one also but it was way younger. I pray that she is gonna have her chance to have a nice family and kids in the future. We have two great kids and a grandbaby on the way,heart goes out to you

 

[johnnyjae]

Sorry to hear about that... Many prayer to you and your family....

 

[bigbud_n_chill]

Love and prayers go out to your family.

Please if you have the resources get your family some professional help. I went through that 10+ years ago with my wife and we never recovered. It is so tough to take it in stride. Worst mistake I made was not getting help for my family.

 

[Dutchgrown]

Good advice bigbud....maybe there's a support group in your area...others who can relate best (in person) to your loss. Maybe a SID support group? In the meantime, know that you have lots of members here that you can vent off some of your feelings to, as evidenced by the support in this thread.

 

[ROJO145]

Nothin I can say to make it better roach,Prayer sent.

 

[RoachClip]

Gracias for All your support and heart felt words, Today I was some what happy and felt more relieved that my daughter looked better and wasn't crying as much although she would have times she cried but we spoke and she understands that if the baby would have survived with the cord in a 2 knots the baby could have been born with a severe disability and she wouldn't want that so she realizes it was in a sad way better the baby never suffered a life of being born disabled or have brain damage.

While my gf was at work I helped my daughter and her husband start to take down the swing and put back in the box all the things they had set up and what I felt good about was the fact when her husband told her he would repaint the baby's room she told him she wanted to leave it the way it was because within a year she would like to try again and I felt a sense of relief when she spoke with a positive outlook in this dark time in our life.

I spoke to a member of their church parish who went through what my daughter and husband went through just 13 months ago and their faith and knowing it was nothing they did to the baby gave them the strength to try again and she gave birth to a healthy little girl...

Both my daughter and her husband had their chromozones tested and the Dr. gave my daughter and her husband a clean bill of health to try again as soon as 3 months but they want to wait for at least 6 months before trying again so I Thank Jesus and all Your prayers and support as well as familia and friends that they will get pass this and have a beautiful baby girl or boy..

 

[Stoner4Life]

I'm so happy to see their positive outlook for the future bro, thank god they have youth and health on their side.

 

[Cheerful]

RC, your last post gives me renewed faith in the power of prayer! I pray that you and your family continue to comfort each other and to achieve peace of mind and soul. Kylee Rose is in the best of hands now.

 

[mean mr.mustard]

Be strong and guide your family through these tough times.

Prayers and blessings for you and yours.

 

[feral]

I can't seem to find the words that will ease the pain perhaps because Greatlakes THC said it for all of us. Condolences to you and your family and even though I'm not religious this def. deserves a prayer.

 

[ganjasuiteseat]

Gracias for All your support and heart felt words, Today I was some what happy and felt more relieved that my daughter looked better and wasn't crying as much although she would have times she cried but we spoke and she understands that if the baby would have survived with the cord in a 2 knots the baby could have been born with a severe disability and she wouldn't want that so she realizes it was in a sad way better the baby never suffered a life of being born disabled or have brain damage.

While my gf was at work I helped my daughter and her husband start to take down the swing and put back in the box all the things they had set up and what I felt good about was the fact when her husband told her he would repaint the baby's room she told him she wanted to leave it the way it was because within a year she would like to try again and I felt a sense of relief when she spoke with a positive outlook in this dark time in our life.

I spoke to a member of their church parish who went through what my daughter and husband went through just 13 months ago and their faith and knowing it was nothing they did to the baby gave them the strength to try again and she gave birth to a healthy little girl...

Both my daughter and her husband had their chromozones tested and the Dr. gave my daughter and her husband a clean bill of health to try again as soon as 3 months but they want to wait for at least 6 months before trying again so I Thank Jesus and all Your prayers and support as well as familia and friends that they will get pass this and have a beautiful baby girl or boy..

now that is a beautiful thing bro.our padre in the sky is smiling.peace bro

 

[esbe]

so sorry to hear roach, you and your family will be in my prayers. my first son had the same problem but survived. he was almost black when he came out and i was scared to the bone, but the docs acted fast and we where lucky.

best wishes for the future

 

[RoachClip]

Muchas Gracias esbe,

I believe in my faith in Jesus and I tried to explain as the same as my daughter's Dr. that if the baby would have been born with the 2 knots in the cord and lack of oxygen and nutrients the baby could have been born severly retarded or deformed etc so the Lord took the baby to be one of his angels and sacrificed the baby and my daughter & her husband from a life of seeing their baby go through hell..

They will always never forget this and it will stay with them for the rest of their lifes but they are young and understand that they do want to have kids and will try again so their emotions are starting to calm down a bit and yes my daughter cries every day but they have stored all the baby's gifts and they went and did a food shopping so their trying to move on and the church mass is this sunday as they had to wait for the funeral home to prepair every thing and the baby's body was at the hospital until the funeral home could pick it up and well, please excuse me but you get the Idea..

I wouldn't have made it without all of you who have gave their kind thoughts and prayers and messages and I would get away and sit here for an hour here & their and read everyone's remarks and I can never say what's in my heart about the support you all gave to me and my familia..

Muchas Gracias and Peace Love & Joy to All the ICM Familia..

 

[bird]

its good to hear they are getting better and that they are healthy and going to try again is the future. even tho we all dont get along on here. its great to see so many come together when its needed

 

[RoachClip]

I can't say it any better bird, You are a great Person and a Friend

 

[Purple Monster]

Terrible.

So sorry.

Praying for your family to recover soon from this painful time.

 

[!!!]

I'm sorry to that roachclip I can't imagine the pain you and your family is in. Glad to hear your daughter is regaining strength and positivity.

It might not make you feel better, but I have an aunt and uncle who have been trying to get pregnant for 10 years. It's not happening because the uncle has a problem but they love each other and adopted a kid, and they're happy but I can see severe sadness in my aunt's face sometimes, like when she sees pregnancies on TV.

At least your daughter can get up and try again and that's a very positive thing. When they decide the time is right, they'll cherish and love the baby 100x more, and it'll bring them much closer together.

 

[Bueno Time]

Same thing happened to my ex girlfriends sister. She knew for a few months that the baby wouldnt make it because it didnt develop a bladder or kidneys for some reason and also she went into cuz she didnt feel right and they had to induce labor and soon before the baby was delievered they couldnt find the heart beat and the baby was obviously still born after that but damn the poor kid never had a chance from the beginning having not developed properly...

OP I feel for the family.

 

[paladin420]

My Daughter & her husband married for 2 years was expecting thier 1st child a Little Girl and my Daughter was 8 months pregnant with 1 month to go and My GF & Her Madre threw her a baby shower this last Sunday.

Tonight I received the worst call in my Life from my Daughter she felt sick and went to the emergency room were they did some test and couldn't find a the baby's heart beat so they did an ultra sound and the baby died with less then 27 days to go.

The cord had 2 knots and it cut off everything..

My world is ripped apart I just came back from the hospital and she delivered the baby and they had to self enduce the labor and I cannot express the pain, knumbness, hurt right now after seeing my first granddaughter laying their dead at 8 months old with fully developed little fingers and feet and life fucking blows man..

My Daughter is so distraught and they had to give her meds to calm her down she is so bad I pray to jesus she recovers from this tragic time in her, my son inlaw, & familia's life..

It is so fucked when you see your daughter so happy and they had furnature custom ordered and all little girl baby stuff and in 2 days come home to see walkers, swings, everything from their wish list in their house is something I can't stop fucking crying ya crying I'm so alone right now I can't even think straight...

the baby my little angel granddaughter weighted 6 pounds and 11 1/2 inches tall...

I would respectfully ask for your prayers and positive vibes for them and I pray she will want to try again when they feel it's time and their having the baby creamated to be with them always and her name was Kylee Rose and now she is with Jesus our Angel Always...

* Please honor my request to say a prayer rather then send me any rep hits as your rep could be more useful as a prayer for my daugher and son inlaw and deceased baby muchas gracias everyone for understanding..

Yes sir.As soon as I am done crying.Be strong for your daughter.

 

[RoachClip]

Thank the Good Lord and we are a strong Familia who believe in Power in Prayers and our Faith with Support from You all here at ICM.

They are talking about waiting the 3 months my daughter's doctor told her to waait then they said it's back to the bottom of the mountain to try again and get to the top and they both have did shopping and went out and of course my daughter still cries but they are taking it day by day..