A couple months ago I signed a one year lease with an apartment complex. Since then a female neighbor living directly above me has been extremely noisy.
This past weekend she was vacuuming and generally being really loud from 11:30pm-6:00pm and it woke me up so I banged on the ceiling a little to let her know that I was simply trying to sleep (this has been an ongoing problem since we've moved in.) Whenever I call the complex regarding the noise issue, they never do much at all (and we've called numerous times.)
Back to the story: I banged on the ceiling and before I knew it she was downstairs knocking on my door claiming she can be, "as loud as she wants whenever she wants." Possibly not the best response, I said out of frustration "The next time I hear it, I'm gonna call the cops." The girl was pissed saying that SHE was going to call the cops.
Two day later, sure enough theres a knock at my door as I'm using my water tube. The police just wanted to get my half of the situation but the girl had also mentioned that there was some marijuana smoke she smells from time to time. The officer then explained that even though she was not here regarding the smoke, she wanted me to be aware that she could smell it and to be careful in case they called again.
Today I have used my vapor brothers once but I am much too afraid to simply create smoke content. I know it is much too risky but I also know the girl only told the cop out of spite because she was upset that I told her to be quiet.
Girls are vindictive and she is in college no less. What are my options regarding both the neighbor, smoking, and relocating? Obviously we are trying to break the lease (the legal lease ends in October so it would be a long time to wait) and move out of this complex but I can't afford to break the lease if it will effect my credit history. The apartment complex has been nothing but grieve, because they never do anything about the noise. We are apparently just supposed to live this way and now I feel so sketchy about letting her know shes being too loud. I don't have any plant matter in the apartment and have no plans too. It is a really depressing situation and I feel trapped and worried.
I feel used, and treated like hell simply because I wanted to go to sleep at night. I am not a bad person. I am a great neighbor besides the smoke. Obviously moving into a first floor apt was a mistake and I've learned my lesson but I just need some insight on the next step to take.
Thank you for your help!
PS I am currently not a MM Patient and the officer did seem like she wasn't super worried about the smoke but she did want to just make me aware.
This past weekend she was vacuuming and generally being really loud from 11:30pm-6:00pm and it woke me up so I banged on the ceiling a little to let her know that I was simply trying to sleep (this has been an ongoing problem since we've moved in.) Whenever I call the complex regarding the noise issue, they never do much at all (and we've called numerous times.)
Back to the story: I banged on the ceiling and before I knew it she was downstairs knocking on my door claiming she can be, "as loud as she wants whenever she wants." Possibly not the best response, I said out of frustration "The next time I hear it, I'm gonna call the cops." The girl was pissed saying that SHE was going to call the cops.
Two day later, sure enough theres a knock at my door as I'm using my water tube. The police just wanted to get my half of the situation but the girl had also mentioned that there was some marijuana smoke she smells from time to time. The officer then explained that even though she was not here regarding the smoke, she wanted me to be aware that she could smell it and to be careful in case they called again.
Today I have used my vapor brothers once but I am much too afraid to simply create smoke content. I know it is much too risky but I also know the girl only told the cop out of spite because she was upset that I told her to be quiet.
Girls are vindictive and she is in college no less. What are my options regarding both the neighbor, smoking, and relocating? Obviously we are trying to break the lease (the legal lease ends in October so it would be a long time to wait) and move out of this complex but I can't afford to break the lease if it will effect my credit history. The apartment complex has been nothing but grieve, because they never do anything about the noise. We are apparently just supposed to live this way and now I feel so sketchy about letting her know shes being too loud. I don't have any plant matter in the apartment and have no plans too. It is a really depressing situation and I feel trapped and worried.
I feel used, and treated like hell simply because I wanted to go to sleep at night. I am not a bad person. I am a great neighbor besides the smoke. Obviously moving into a first floor apt was a mistake and I've learned my lesson but I just need some insight on the next step to take.
Thank you for your help!
PS I am currently not a MM Patient and the officer did seem like she wasn't super worried about the smoke but she did want to just make me aware.