Just lost a good friend because I grow..

[Anti]

If you're a renter, I recommend moving your operation when your lease comes up.

If you're an owner... I recommend putting your house on the market.

The fact she even knows the backstory of how he taught you to grow.... she knows too much about you.

These people know where you live and they are your enemies.

 

[Baba Ku]

I am another of those in the camp that says you are fucked.

See, you don't talk fight club. No other rules.
OK, the guy showed you how to grow...he should have taught you to decide that it just wasn't for you and you just aren't going to chance growing pot. Or at least that is what he needs to know after your lessons were over.
You just don't fucking talking about fight club, and obviously your dipshit friend talked about fight club. And now it is clear that the one who he spilled the beans to is your worst nightmare. Don't think so? Hide and watch.

You need to do something very drastic. Be smooth and put on a facade of how you closed the grow down and make it believable to your pal. Make him know that you no longer grow, and have found Jesus or something. And once you have done that, distance yourself from both of them. This will take drastic action such as what Anti is telling you, and much less is just letting the clock tick on your ass.

The way I see it, you are fucked. Now, do you continue being fucked, or do you rectify the situation? You either keep growing and do what needs to be done immediately, or you give it up. No way can you continue the way you are..unless you really enjoy fried bologna and stewed tomatoes on a frequent basis.

Never talk fight club.
My best friend, who I would do just about anything for....has no idea I grow. I used to smoke him up all the time with the best of the best, but he had no idea. He just knew I had the prime hookup. One day his old lady out of nowhere asked "Do you grow your own?"
I laughed as I said no, but why would you ask me that? She said that nobody has the sort of pot that I always have, and she just figured I had to be growing it. She meant well, and was just being inquisitive and I am sure she really wasn't trying to pry, just a simple question in her mind. BUT...that was it. No more smoke of the kind with my bro. I hate it that he will be high and dry, and I have to tell him that I am also out whenever there is a drought and he calls to see if I have any smoke.
But my security had been violated just by her suspecting me of growing my own bud.
Whenever I see them now, I will usually have half a doob or so and smoke it with them and ask if they can score any good weed, cause that was last of my stash or some such story. I am always playing roles with them now..and I so hate role playing. But I have no choice. Well, I have choices, but they do not include me stopping the grow.

 

[SacredTHCRitual]

I am another of those in the camp that says you are fucked.

See, you don't talk fight club. No other rules.
OK, the guy showed you how to grow...he should have taught you to decide that it just wasn't for you and you just aren't going to chance growing pot. Or at least that is what he needs to know after your lessons were over.
You just don't fucking talking about fight club, and obviously your dipshit friend talked about fight club. And now it is clear that the one who he spilled the beans to is your worst nightmare. Don't think so? Hide and watch.

You need to do something very drastic. Be smooth and put on a facade of how you closed the grow down and make it believable to your pal. Make him know that you no longer grow, and have found Jesus or something. And once you have done that, distance yourself from both of them. This will take drastic action such as what Anti is telling you, and much less is just letting the clock tick on your ass.

The way I see it, you are fucked. Now, do you continue being fucked, or do you rectify the situation? You either keep growing and do what needs to be done immediately, or you give it up. No way can you continue the way you are..unless you really enjoy fried bologna and stewed tomatoes on a frequent basis.

Never talk fight club.
My best friend, who I would do just about anything for....has no idea I grow. I used to smoke him up all the time with the best of the best, but he had no idea. He just knew I had the prime hookup. One day his old lady out of nowhere asked "Do you grow your own?"
I laughed as I said no, but why would you ask me that? She said that nobody has the sort of pot that I always have, and she just figured I had to be growing it. She meant well, and was just being inquisitive and I am sure she really wasn't trying to pry, just a simple question in her mind. BUT...that was it. No more smoke of the kind with my bro. I hate it that he will be high and dry, and I have to tell him that I am also out whenever there is a drought and he calls to see if I have any smoke.
But my security had been violated just by her suspecting me of growing my own bud.
Whenever I see them now, I will usually have half a doob or so and smoke it with them and ask if they can score any good weed, cause that was last of my stash or some such story. I am always playing roles with them now..and I so hate role playing. But I have no choice. Well, I have choices, but they do not include me stopping the grow.

see that's real talk. this guy cut the ties when the friend's girlfriend even got wiff and asked a question. If you do this growing thing you gotta be committed to keep it on the down..like he said you don't talk about fight club.


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on another note I think I found a picture of the OP's friends girl....

tell him to run or she'll suck the man right out of him.

 

[James666]

The guy needs to get the thumb print off his forehead and tell his lass to kiss his arse!

Lasses tend to remove your mates out of your life the more you settle down. The trick is not to let them. I guess your mates just a little crap at it!

 

[cashmunny]

Wait ...I'm having a vision of the future...I see ...a HAT! Yes a HAT! Wait, wait it's becoming clearer now. The hat is in the hand of your friend. He has come hat in hand to you. He is apologizing to you and saying he was wrong. He's saying something ... starts with "p" pu...pu.. YESSSS that's it. He's saying "I was pussy whipped."

Mark my words, hat in hand he will come. Sooner or later. And when he does DON'T LET HIM OFF EASY. Make him say the words "Yes brother, I was pussy whipped. But I now see the error of my ways." Then you can be magnanimous and accept him back into the fold. Only after confession can one make an act of contrition and be accepted back.

 

[Kiwi Star]

He's been talking to someone else about my business. That's too much of a security risk. I would rather not forgive and than increase the risk of going to jail. You have all helped me realise that. **** 'em