do you keep "friends" who lie to you?

[canadiancracker]

i have buddies who cant keep there stories straight.

wheter they lie because they look up to me and think there lie will go over smoother than the truth. and dont want me to be upset with them..

or lie because they are embarresed that they got knocked the fuck out and beaten down...

im just tied of the lies... its easier to deal with whatever cards are on the table no matter how bad they are, rather than knowing that you've been lied too...

some people think that they are smarter than you, and that you wont see thou there storied, but once i have they are burnt to me...

i hate liars... i rather have nobody around me than fucking liars...

 

[TrichyTrichy]

QFT

 

[chongsbuddy]

the sorry fact is that most people lie.i am the opposite,i feel the truth is what you owe yourself and others,you are not helping someone by lying to them.my dad is brutally honest and i am very proud of him for it.it is a sacrifise,but being true to yourself is well worth it.

 

[Phillthy]

i cant stand people who lie to me. i can understand all other circumstances but not lying. zero tolerance.

 

[JHerbz]

My "best" friend.
Hes a compulsive liar. Thats all he fucking does. Since ive known him since we were 5-6 years old hes always tried to lie to make himself look cooler, we got into skateboarding(6th grade) hes saying pro skaters are his cousins and shit to people like wtf..? saying hes sponsored by company's and later on in a few years hes a pro dirt biker and then hes the best hockey player all this yada yada bullshit. Now its just him always lieng about what hes doing at the moment or giving me a bullshit time that he will arive at my house and EVERY time hes 2-4 hours late. And of course as we all know when you start smoking bud/growing you start looking out the windows. well when someone says they will be at my house i expect them to be there withing 30 mins of there time they said. He even trys to lie to me about stuff hes done and all kinds of other crap. I ALWAYS call him out on it cause i don't deal with that crap. Yet he still doesn't learn his lesson.

 

[PoopyTeaBags]

i have buddies who cant keep there stories straight.

wheter they lie because they look up to me and think there lie will go over smoother than the truth. and dont want me to be upset with them..

or lie because they are embarresed that they got knocked the fuck out and beaten down...

im just tied of the lies... its easier to deal with whatever cards are on the table no matter how bad they are, rather than knowing that you've been lied too...

some people think that they are smarter than you, and that you wont see thou there storied, but once i have they are burnt to me...

i hate liars... i rather have nobody around me than fucking liars...

my guess is its over money and weed... ive been in this game for years is the same with every person.. i dont even listen to it no more... i call them "the stories" and stop people inbetween cause it dont matter to me in the end they dont have the money and thats what it all comes down to... i dont have many friends because of business and ive met really good friends through business... .its all met to be.... but no friends that lie to me and dodge me become associates.... and usually non friends soon after..

 

[alamony2005]

Yes I have kept friend even after being lied to. It boils down to each situation at hand and if it bothers you enough to either call them out or to just forget it.

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

Friends who lie? Who needs lying friends when you've got family?

My sister is a sociopath. Hell she might even be a psychopath. When mom died, she told...

... her husband I wouldn't help
... my dad I wasn't good enough to help

And she refused to communicate with me.



So my bro-in-law calls me up and says to get my ass over and help my sister, (and some other choice words.) Had to tell the poor bastard he was being lied to. My sister wouldn't delegate and wanted more time away from him. I had a few choice words of my own for bro-in-law, "Want me to fill in a few more blanks for ya there, bro?"

So after the loving phone call, I approached my sister. I reminded her I'm a family member and biological mate. I also reminded her she'd have to communicate if she wanted help. I admitted exposing her circle-jerk to hubby. She jumped up and down, ran a circle around the chair while flapping her arms like a bird, (distraction at a desperate moment.)

Then the dumb bitch calls her even dumber hubby on the phone and demands he apologize to me. I had to explain to dumb and dumber that (my sister) owed the apology and nobody else.

I didn't get an apology, I got a snide look instead. Then I told sis she needed to apologize to hubby for lying and getting his ass in a sling with me. She didn't care to do that either. That's just it. Bro-in-law bought a fast-track divorce 8 years later. How he made it 15 I'll never know.

I'm not suggesting all your friends abuse non-actionable coping mechanisms like lying or trashing behind your back. I'm saying the sociopath or psychopath in your life doesn't care whether they're telling the truth or lying. It's all a means to an end.


As far as trying to figure out why friends lie, forget about wasting time with a sociopath or psychopath. Psychologists and psychiatrists don't speculate, they leave motive up to criminologists. The criminal mind (even if one doesn't break laws) doesn't think normally and they don't admit the way they think.

 

[canadiancracker]

i am brutally honest and cannot keep shit in if its in my head. ive been that way for so long you can read my face like a book.. it took me forever to find my girl who puts up with my brutal honesty.

lying and liars suck ass....

i cant deal with the loss of energy that liars take from me.. its too much to handel.. i feel like becoming a hermit lol..

 

[Marijuanasaur]

Deception in social interactions is becoming less and less frowned upon, even taught. It seems almost like a trait that is now naturally selected for in the current scheme of the world. It disgusts me. Yet it increases self benefit enormously in social interactions for various reasons.

People have many faces where I come from. Eventually I do sort through and find the people who are real to themselves and others. They are worth the search. Good luck.

i am brutally honest and cannot keep shit in if its in my head. ive been that way for so long you can read my face like a book.. it took me forever to find my girl who puts up with my brutal honesty.
lying and liars suck ass....
i cant deal with the loss of energy that liars take from me.. its too much to handel.. i feel like becoming a hermit lol..

CanadianCracker, I feel your pain

 

[canadiancracker]

jherbz, i got a cousin thats exactly like your friend..

i hate waiting on people... and i swear he does it sometimes just because he knows it pisses me off..

too much to handle. i call him out all the fucking time and he still doesnt admit it.. he avoids me till ive calmed down and then comes back around...

but this time enough is enough.. fuck him and his shit.. no more liars. once i think that someone lies to me its over.

 

[xcrispi]

Not for very long , lifes way too short for bullshit .
The truth will set you free .
Crispi

 

[JHerbz]

jherbz, i got a cousin thats exactly like your friend..

i hate waiting on people... and i swear he does it sometimes just because he knows it pisses me off..

too much to handle. i call him out all the fucking time and he still doesnt admit it.. he avoids me till ive calmed down and then comes back around...

but this time enough is enough.. fuck him and his shit.. no more liars. once i think that someone lies to me its over.

Yep. But ive learned something, this lieng "friend" has been getting some quality bud and will smoke me out, i always say im out of bud(most the time i am tho) but i just let him smoke me out and then be on my merry way.

But the part about calling and he ignores on purpose... hate that shit.. I started doing it to him once in a while. even ignoring when hes came to my door and just kept calling my phone instead of RINGING A DOORBELL?? EVERY HEARD OF ONE RETARD? shit..
People are ignorant.
and yeah i call my friend out ALL the time too and never admits to shit. just says "My bad" or "i got stuck doing...." "insert bullshit here".

Yup.

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

i am brutally honest and cannot keep shit in if its in my head. ive been that way for so long you can read my face like a book.. it took me forever to find my girl who puts up with my brutal honesty.

lying and liars suck ass....

i cant deal with the loss of energy that liars take from me.. its too much to handel.. i feel like becoming a hermit lol..

Generally, everybody lies... even if their motives don't use others. Listen to your inner voice. When you sense lies ask yourself, ("motive?") Think again about giving users a second chance. Many are habitual and won't give a flip about your open honesty. They care about using others.

If your open honesty ever makes a connection, your may want to hang-on to whoever you're relating with. Even if they aggravate you they must have the capacity to care before you can do anything about it. Other than telling em to buzz off. Some will try to hang around even more because they know why they're being dissed. Some will try to condition you away from your primary instincts, don't let it happen.

 

[DiscoBiscuit]

Only the enemies you MUST deal with. Otherwise, stay away from bad company. They typically outsmart conventional thinking. If you can think like a punk but not be one yourself, more power.

 

[gdtrfb]

i lie to my friends like a rug. not even a good oriental rug, i'm talking the cheap 10 dollar ones that show up at Goodwill.

when i get it in return, i just smile and nod. i consider it a professional courtesy.

 

[sackoweed]

the world is full of them.. Especially now when the money is tight.. My best friend who has gained a lot of weight and is becoming lazier more & more. uses lie after lie as to why he cant go somewhere or do something with me or our group of friends.. I know him as i know myself and he still tries to get me to think he is really sick, or working or having meetings its always something.. Then his son tells me my dad doesnt really have all this stuff to do he is just lieing so he can stay home and sleep.. It really pisses me off so i called him out on it and he finally admitted he is somewhat depressed cos the weight and really doesnt want to explain himself to anyone.. Kinda sad.. That is the kinda lieing i dont like.. the others fuck em they can keep their lies and eat shit.. I dont fuck with that shit i got to many things going on to wait around to hear the ridiculous stories these fucks make up.. its insulting to us who have to hear that shit.. So i stay away from those acquaintances they are not my friends.. my two copper coins with my lil story.. I am trying to get my BFF lmfao to get off that fat ass and hit the gym with me but its always ill start next monday... LMFAO!! I hope he takes me up on it one of these mondays... peace n pufs..

sacKO

 

[In~Plain~Site]

i am brutally honest and cannot keep shit in if its in my head. ive been that way for so long you can read my face like a book.. it took me forever to find my girl who puts up with my brutal honesty.

lying and liars suck ass....

i cant deal with the loss of energy that liars take from me.. its too much to handel.. i feel like becoming a hermit lol..

That's how shit usually ends up going sidewayz anyhow, the truth hurts sometimes and people get to feeling some kinna way, but real friends know what needs to be said and when.

 

[teemu shalanie]

Only one thing I hate worse then a liar , thats a thief !
peace TS

 

[CANNATOPIA]

There are only three types of people in this world to me. "Family" , Acquaintances & Catz I don't know. My "Family" don't Lie. Just my opinion.