Have you introduced a relative to Mj?

[Sandnut]

Hey, I'd like to hear everyones oppinion on this and also any stories you might have.

Here's the deal, Im doing my first indoor grow and while my younger brother (18) was on a visit at my place (yes he knows that I grow)So we had a conversation about weed, he's very curious about it and asks me alot of questions cause he doesn't really know anything about growing , barely the differences between bud and hasch, as he has never smoked it. So he then asked me If he could try it once with me once my crop is done, and I got really shocked, and didn't really know what to say, I thought it would be wrong but on the other hand Id rather want him to try it with me in a safe enviroment rather than having him going to buy it of a dealer on the street, cause I know he will try it regardless if it's with me or not.

I really don't know what to do, I mean.. I cant really tell him to not do it when I am, not that its dangereous but you know.. it feels wrong, hes a good boy

what would/have you guys done if you have been in a situation like this?

/san

 

[Mezz Mezzrow]

I mean how old is your brother?

 

[Sandnut]

Oh, I obviously forgot to name the most important thing... he is 18
I'll edit that into the 1st post, thx

 

[Mezz Mezzrow]

I don't know what the problem is. You don't think it is "bad," but you kind of do?

 

[rocky5]

i just had a smoke with my baby bro who just came of
age for me to consider giving him a smoke-17 yrs old he is
and here is how it went,

he had a look about my grow and all that while i was skining
up,and as i was doing so we had a chat to see what he had
done/tried before,"soap bar ive tried" so i warned him and told him
the dangers of it.
we then got into medical talk and its other properties and all that.
so i pass him a 5 skin zigzag joint to blast away on and at this time my wife went to the shops.
my little bro started heavily chonging this joint like it was going out of fashion
and 5-10 mins later he says "is it ok if i go lie down for a min" yep sure go ahead.
found him in the toilet hanging over the pan being sick all over the place then put him into bed.
the wife comes back and says "where is ------" im like in bed.
shes like what have you done to him,freeking out.

14 hrs later he got out of bed still smashed.

anyway it could have went better,but i thought one joint would have been ok.
whats that saying? if someone is thirsty give them half a glass and if they want more
give them the rest.
something like that.

rocky5

 

[Sandnut]

I don't know what the problem is. You don't think it is "bad," but you kind of do?

I really don't think it's bad dont get me the wrong way but let's be honest here, I dont want him to end up being a stoner, there's better things do in life, I mean there's good and bad versions of stoners if you get what I mean..by all means it's not wrong to smoke it! Im a smoker and now grower but still living a 'normal' life, maybe he will do the same but have the bad luck to get busted?, mainly im thinking that i dont wanna have to look back at this 10 years from now and think its my fault i introduced him to it, maybe im just being over protective, what ya think?

 

[rocky5]

you sound like you are putting little bro on a pedastool or something
if weed isnt good enough for him why is it good enough for you.
make your mind up for yourself first and while you are wondering if its
good bad for little bro or yourself maybee he will be smoking some soap bar with
his friends.
while you sit on the fence.

it sounds like you are fighting the battle, is weed good or bad?

 

[Sandnut]

you sound like you are putting little bro on a pedastool or something
if weed isnt good enough for him why is it good enough for you.
make your mind up for yourself first and while you are wondering if its
good bad for little bro or yourself maybee he will be smoking some soap bar with
his friends.
while you sit on the fence.

it sounds like you are fighting the battle, is weed good or bad?

..yea you're right.. but think about this, im also thinking that his parents might find out cause they have a really honest & open realitionship, and I dont know how they would react to that, I mean they wont get really mad at him but maybe the fact that it was given by his own brother lol

 

[Mezz Mezzrow]

I would think someone with the tag Pussy Money Weed would be a little more callous about it! Like "Yeah Homey hit that muthafuckin' shit yo!"

 

[rocky5]

your just being over protective and worrying he will
make the same mistakes as you have,cannabis aint a mistake
it does good for mind body soul.
have faith in your bro,he will turn out ok with or without smoke.

rocky5

 

[Dimebagg]

I didnt introduce my bro to smoking, but he had not smoked many times before we came upon the subject together. If my brother wants to chill and smoke, I always offer him a place to do it. I feel alot better after we talked about it, we're alot closer now because of it.

 

[Sandnut]

I would think someone with the tag Pussy Money Weed would be a little more callous about it! Like "Yeah Homey hit that muthafuckin' shit yo!"

Hahaha, yeah i guess it will end up that way after all

your just being over protective and worrying he will
make the same mistakes as you have,cannabis aint a mistake
it does good for mind body soul.
have faith in your bro,he will turn out ok with or without smoke.

rocky5

yeah reading this a couple of mins later i see that its kinda obvious, also what was i thinking asking people in the weed comunity, was i really expecting any other answers for ur post man

 

[Cheerful]

Yeah, if he's 18 and has half a brain he can figure out how to score on his own if he's determined. Sounds a little like you are afraid of what your parents might think. If he was just a family friend instead of your little bro I'd bet you wouldn't be worried about it.

What I'm trying to say is: 1) it's great that he & parents are so close; he can tell them about trying pot if he must, without telling about your involvement, right? And..... 2) if for some reason you are called on the carpet by your parents...tell them of some of the many good points that you and others here have made, such as: He's 18, doesn't need your help to get pot; You are experienced and care about your brother's well being, you are involved because you're making sure nothing bad happens to him while he experiments, and you have cautioned him, etc.

He's not asking for an intro to meth or heroin, right? Just MJ. And if he did ask about meth or heroin, you wouldn't facilitate that would you? Just MJ. OK then, well there you go.

 

[here2learn]

I would think someone with the tag Pussy Money Weed would be a little more callous about it! Like "Yeah Homey hit that muthafuckin' shit yo!"

 

[cyber echo]

The most important thing about starting to smoke cannabis is to start smoking it with a "good" crowd imho.......
So, its best if he starts with you (provided you fit into the category above, heheh j/k) and not with a group of shithead druggie friends.
Who knows, he might already be smoking it....

 

[cyber echo]

Oh, and brothers that smoke together always get along
Even the ones that didn't before they started smoking together.
(Ok maybe not ALL of them)
But no kidding, I've known a lot of friends that weren't really as connected to their siblings before they started chillin together

 

[asde²]

when i was younger i surely introduced a lot of people to mj but i cant remember anyone in the past 5 years at least.. i respect it when my friends say they dont like it ; most (quite all) at least tried it once, some oldies still smoke it

cannabis is all over