I don't drink and want a girlfriend

[RoachClip]

I met my gf at the local farmers market > she was holding a huge cucumber in her hand and I walked over to her and asked if she was alone and visited the farmers market much and from that day on we have been together.

Try church pot luck dinners or salvation army clothing drives they are the best places to meet woman and their always more then willing to talk to you.

 

[philcollins]

bongtvlive.com.....checkit out...its no joke...i see stoners hooking up on there all the time...

 

[kmk420kali]

AA.........You're not supposed to be looking for a relationship right now A week? Work on yourself first....the rest will follow in it's time.

That is your best advice there-- I quit an 18 year heroin addiction with AA (With many trips to prison included)...it CAN work...but you have to give it the time to change your hard-wired habits...including Relationships-- If you are not drinking...the LAST place you want to find a girl...is in a Bar--
Like KG said...get with a group of ppl that you share interests with...and learn how to interact with them as a whole...before you start "Hunting"--

 

[OMountainMix]

Take a French class through your local college, university, or the Alliance Française.

If you take the class through the college/university, ALSO join your local Alliance Française. They will have meet ups for conversation, activities, etc. You will meet lots of nice people. If you don't meet a nice lady, you will surely meet someone who knows a nice, single lady.

 

[johnbobit]

Like everyone has said stay out of the bars.......a week and you think you are ready to be hanging out in bars? Not smart.

"AA is a good help for a few months till you stabilize. Heal, grow, learn, then love will come..........and fuck your ass back up." so funny to true.

stay away from bar girls there fuced in the head 9 out of 10 times. Girls want you when you don't want them, thats life

 

[BiG H3rB Tr3E]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7HAi0gKZtMA

 

[armedoldhippy]

i'll have to second (or third, whatever, LOL!) the grocery store. go after dinner when the drinkers are at the bars, this way you will meet the ones that don't drink. no surprises, you know? but, the best way (at least it worked that way for me) was to take my Labrador retriever to the park lake nearby, & throw his frisbee for him. every single kid there would run up & ask if they could toss it, & their mommies/big sisters would walk over to make sure their kids/siblings weren't bothering me. ah, the good old days of being single...

 

[armedoldhippy]

I met my gf at the local farmers market > she was holding a huge cucumber in her hand and I walked over to her and asked if she was alone and visited the farmers market much and from that day on we have been together.

Try church pot luck dinners or salvation army clothing drives they are the best places to meet woman and their always more then willing to talk to you.

i can relate, man. did she take you AND the cucumber home, or did she put it back down when you started talking to her? either way works, this aint a trick question, LOL! "vegetables are our FRIENDS"

 

[Snagglepuss]

I have friends who swear by the internet to meet women...I have met and dated a few,in the past from the internet myself ...It cuts out alot of the bullshit ,cause you are basically on their for the same reason.......Dating sites to meet a long term girlfriend or mate....Or craigslist to meet girls who want to hang and out and smoke pot ...Take a look at all the women ads looking for 420 friendly guy, to hang out with.....Ive also met at least 2 couples, who met on the internet through dating sites and are now married....You just have to deal with the occasional misrepresentation...like people who post a face picture ,and misrepresent their actual weight.

Good luck in your search.....

 

[BiG H3rB Tr3E]

Pffffttt I don't know about craigslist. I check it from time to time and it's nothing but seriously obese women and single moms with shitty realationships with the kids' father.... fuck that nonsense.

 

[In~Plain~Site]

I dig chicks that are slightly more cerebral...sexy & smart = library.

Seriously man, congrats on the sobriety...keep workin' it

Work on you and the rest will work itself out

 

[Kush_Master]

dude chicks are everywhere, just go and talk to them.
the last girl i banged was the cashier at a shoestore i was shopping at. who says you need to get drunk and go to clubs to meet girls?

also university rocks! i get most of my days from university girls. i just ask them if they want to have an ice cream with me thats it. then i try to get them to my place and fuck them its easy really.

 

[cyberwax]

dude chicks are everywhere, just go and talk to them.
the last girl i banged was the cashier at a shoestore i was shopping at. who says you need to get drunk and go to clubs to meet girls?

Amen to that, the difference between men who get girls and men who dont is that people who do actually have the guts to talk to the girls. Just find an angle and talk to em, warm em up using the flirt method(tm).

And the difference between men and chicks and men who dont get chicks, and chicks who are like men that get; is almost non existant, we are all simple bipeds with inverted genitals for difference, no need to drink! Go for it!

 

[!!!]

Ignore the fear people have about the Internet and online dating and try it out. It's the shit. I never tried any of the smaller niche dating sites like "420 dating" but the big ones are pretty good, especially if you're in a big city.

 

[medmaker420]

I have been there and would personally suggest not focusing on NOT drinking but rather focus on MOVING ON with your life. Many people I know/knew used AA as a place to take over their lives and used that as the NEW addictive thing to do which can be beneficial at first but man after 6 months of hearing the same ol sob story in AA each day/week and realizing these guys are sitting around with 1-5+ years sober BUT still going to meetings daily for many years at a time and not actually being PRODUCTIVE in their lives because of their "disease".


don't let the cure become just another disease in itself because it is simple especially if you have an addictive personality.

Be able to live without having to focus on NOT drinking all the time and rather about LIVING and locating a woman who you find interesting. You don't need to go to bars to meet girls BUT that is an easy place. Also just because you stop drinking I hope you don't do that " oh i'm an alcoholic so I can't be around alcohol" b.s. because blaming or looking down NOW on others simply because you couldn't handle the drink isn't productive either.

Woman can be found everywhere, hell even in AA there are plenty lol

 

[D4sh3y]

i met my girlfriend when she was working. just walked up and said hey you're cute we should hang out. BOOM been together for 2 yrs now. shes hot too!

 

[kmk420kali]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7HAi0gKZtMA

 

[Phedrosbenny]

Well...if you dont drink then you will probably have to get a pretty one.Its easier to drink that half a fifth and then get you a girl.Just a little "hiccup" in the standard department and everything goes smoothly..lols..just joking

 

[supermanlives]

drunk women are easy

 

[Phedrosbenny]

I dont know about easy,but yes they are definetly easy-ur....