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I'm taking a break from my research on other things to try and spark up a discussion here about our favorite kind of people!
You know the type - they say they aren't mad but act the opposite. Sometimes they aren't mad, they just feel like they're being taken advantage of but don't speak up and put a stop to it. Whatever the reason, they keep quiet about what's bothering them and usually end up taking it out in pretty childish ways instead of just saying "look man, you're pissing me off, here's why..." and dealing with the problem.
Sometimes everything seems cool, then out of nowhere they do something incredibly rude to a friend just because (quoting a friend trying to explain his dickish behavior last week) "in the end, it's my choice" - well yes it is your choice, and you can definitely do as you wish, but don't act mad when I react by telling you it's MY choice to not associate with people who do rude shit just because they can.
We all know people like that, and I don't know about you, but I want my friends to behave in ways that are good for them. And being passive aggressive really isn't a good way to act, it tends to make you look like an asshole. The problem is these types of people are really hard to deal with sometimes, because they usually refuse to admit they aren't handling things the best way, and they're so closed minded they won't even TRY to see themselves from another person's point of view.
So what causes someone to act that way? Do they hate confrontation? Do they not know how to communicate what's on their mind?
How do YOU deal with these types of people?
You know the type - they say they aren't mad but act the opposite. Sometimes they aren't mad, they just feel like they're being taken advantage of but don't speak up and put a stop to it. Whatever the reason, they keep quiet about what's bothering them and usually end up taking it out in pretty childish ways instead of just saying "look man, you're pissing me off, here's why..." and dealing with the problem.
Sometimes everything seems cool, then out of nowhere they do something incredibly rude to a friend just because (quoting a friend trying to explain his dickish behavior last week) "in the end, it's my choice" - well yes it is your choice, and you can definitely do as you wish, but don't act mad when I react by telling you it's MY choice to not associate with people who do rude shit just because they can.
We all know people like that, and I don't know about you, but I want my friends to behave in ways that are good for them. And being passive aggressive really isn't a good way to act, it tends to make you look like an asshole. The problem is these types of people are really hard to deal with sometimes, because they usually refuse to admit they aren't handling things the best way, and they're so closed minded they won't even TRY to see themselves from another person's point of view.
So what causes someone to act that way? Do they hate confrontation? Do they not know how to communicate what's on their mind?
How do YOU deal with these types of people?