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RULE #1 "Do I Have To Remind You" ???
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Dating someone that doesn't smoke when you not only smoke kind but grow.....
- Thread starter simple green
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Bazarocka
I decided to remind you anyway. Telling her you smoke, thats one thing.
"TELL NO ONE OF YOUR GROW" Especially a Lover/Girlfriend.
"TELL NO ONE OF YOUR GROW" Especially a Lover/Girlfriend.
you can change who she is and you can not change who you are you either except each other for who you are and like it or get out of there before you hurt her and she hurts you back with a phone call KEEP YOUR BUSSINESS TO YOUR SELF IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A MMP,you must have some sense bro do not let the little head think for the big head or you might find your self playing bitch to someone elses little head in the grey bar hotel.i have never had a long term relationship with someone who the primary things i do for enjoyment and pain relief IE smoke and eat bud did not partake of the same . my deceased wife and i smoked and grew pot ever happy day for 34 years find someone you have life pleasures in common with and it will last a life time and you will not spend half your time hiding who you are ,i have a new love and guess what she smokes to try adult friend finders.com and say your looking for 420 kind of gal till i hooked up with this lovely lady i met 4or5 every week for a year to find a keeper look and you will find one who suits you in the mean time you will be having fun guilt free
simple green
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hmmm not a bad idea....a kinda sorta white lie that could be corrected
She doesn't seem to have reservations about me smoking...that would be a good way to gauge her reaction at the next level....
MeanBean
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Yeah and after you say that and you need further probbing say something like, I wish I could get my stuff for free!
Also play dumb, say you want to grow a plant and "see if you can", see what she says thier.
If shes ok with the idea your cool. If not she only thinks you wanted to try and grow a mj plant..
They dont need to know all that is involved ya know? My girl can't see whats wrong with me growing a little plant, she even peeks in my cab!
She doesn't smoke ethier.. twice a year kinda thing as well...
Also play dumb, say you want to grow a plant and "see if you can", see what she says thier.
If shes ok with the idea your cool. If not she only thinks you wanted to try and grow a mj plant..
They dont need to know all that is involved ya know? My girl can't see whats wrong with me growing a little plant, she even peeks in my cab!
She doesn't smoke ethier.. twice a year kinda thing as well...
If you're serious.... be totally and completely honest with her and yourself. Anything else is just a waste of time.
Your brain is changing... it does that when a human hits around 30.... expect your thinking to change about a few more things, over the next couple years.
I wouldn't tell her about growing yet.... but definitely keep being honest about how much you smoke. Have you ever considered switching to Cannapills? Only toke once in a while and feel good all day anyway? Different experience you may find appealing now...
Whatever you do...
Stay Honest and Stay Safe!
Your brain is changing... it does that when a human hits around 30.... expect your thinking to change about a few more things, over the next couple years.
I wouldn't tell her about growing yet.... but definitely keep being honest about how much you smoke. Have you ever considered switching to Cannapills? Only toke once in a while and feel good all day anyway? Different experience you may find appealing now...
Whatever you do...
Stay Honest and Stay Safe!
I agree, honesty is key, but also, trust the gut instinct..
You could set yourself up to get in trouble
You could set yourself up to get in trouble
being with a non pothead shouldnt be an issue.
my wife hasn't smoked w/ me or anybody else for over 2 years.
we get along as fine as any other married person does.
and it def saves more herb for you!
my wife hasn't smoked w/ me or anybody else for over 2 years.
we get along as fine as any other married person does.
and it def saves more herb for you!
My girlfriend smokes a ton and still sometimes can get jealous of the ladies. She is jealous that their heating/cooling is always better, the air they breath is cleaner....the water they drink is better....damn I love my ladies
My girlfriend HATES the smell of cannabis.... even if its the best smelling shit out there. She therefor doesn't smoke, or want to be around people smoking, and really cant stand a smelly grow. Hence why I got a carbon scrubber that I change out the carbon of every 6 months, and I don't put my plants before her when shes with me. But she knows I grow, smoke, and sell. She tolerates it because it is not #1 priority, and I would never get out of bed to sell... I trust her with my life and I know she wouldn't do me dirty, but if she did, shed regret it.... what she doesn't know is I mentor her brother in growing...
Love is a one of a kind thing, but a plant is just a seed in the ground that you water... I can grow a plant much easier than I can fall in love with someone.
Love is a one of a kind thing, but a plant is just a seed in the ground that you water... I can grow a plant much easier than I can fall in love with someone.
I was gonna tell you to tell her about a friend and gauge the reaction but MeanBean beat me to it.
So I'll reiterate that you should run it by her in an offhand, casual way "as if" you were thinking about it and see what she thinks about the idea when she thinks it is only an idea.
So I'll reiterate that you should run it by her in an offhand, casual way "as if" you were thinking about it and see what she thinks about the idea when she thinks it is only an idea.
