this fucking thing he wants to do gives me stomach aches lol...
Knowingly fathering another man's child
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bromhexine
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love comes and goes she may be the one for you right now but in a few years chances are the flame will expire and you'll be left stuck. before getting too deep into this mess realize that a pregnant woman will say and do things she wouldnt normally do because of hormones and not wanting to be alone. perhaps even believe the things she says. id suggest stay close with her but keep a safe distance love makes us stupid.
where ya at fj
Dr. Dank
Active member
I went through the same situation 8 years ago.This woman started out my roomate and friend, now eight years later I have a wife and stepson that I love and would not trade for anything. Next thurs is the due date for our second child, and I will love them both the same. You will never now if you dont try. On a side note her x has to pay me child support..lol..
k+ you sound solid.
if FJ has all the love it takes and is not a jealous idiot like myself, then surely it can be done.
good luck to FJ, and peace
robbiedublu
Member
LOL !! Every man who's ever been hosed over by a woman said this early in the relationship. Get back to us in a couple of years.
sour power
Active member
yo bro im gonna keep it real with you.if you got back with her and the kid was here it would be all good.but thats not whats going on in your situation.ask her to get an abortion,and then you and her can make a baby.honestly just cause she tells you he wont be there doesnt mean he wont.if it was you having the baby would you not be there?keep in mind your young there will always be other women better and worse thats just life.you seem like a nice guy but keep in mind sometimes nice guys get the short end of the stick.whatever you decide to do think of your self first in this situation.you wont be selfish thinking this way because at the end of the day your the only one who has something to loose.
peace and good luck
peace and good luck
would you mind telling us how come you and your so called true love didnt work out the first time around cause if yous didnt work once what the fuck makes you think that its gonna be perfecto thiss time round,with someone elses kid ! how are you gonna react if this guy wants part custody of HIS child are you gonna take a back seat cause iv had **** try and father my son and it cost em a few teeth and black eyes,are you gonna step back and let this guy do his job if he chooses to,cause after all you are not the father and you do not know what the future is gonna bring once this kid is here,and from what you have told us this guy is totaly unaware he has impregnated this chic,so maybe let us know when he knows and you know for sure he doesnt want to father it before you go tellin us your ready to take over. and also why the f does this chic wanna have a kid with someone she isnt with?? why doesnt she abort and make one with you her TRUE LOVE!
SoCaliSmoker
Member
I think the first 3 pages were helpful advice and then turned to "reality" at it's finest! Has Farmer responded back in a while?
What do you say about all this now Farmer? We need your opinion! The last thing we want is for you to read all these comments and then say to yourself "yeah, yeah, yeah" and go do your own thing. This is real talk!!
What do you say about all this now Farmer? We need your opinion! The last thing we want is for you to read all these comments and then say to yourself "yeah, yeah, yeah" and go do your own thing. This is real talk!!
He's probably buying her flowers and sucking her toes by now.
SoCaliSmoker
Member
sito007
Member
its the weekend , so he prob taking her to eat and shopping for the other man's baby ,lmao what a fucking clown. the only reason a can imagine hooking up with that girl is because this guy might be on a wheelchair or way to obese to get a normal girl.
there's way to much pussy around the world to settle on seconds. Fuck the baby , its not about that baby that isn't even yours bro. IT ALL ABOUT YOU AND YOUR LIFE AND HOW HAPPY AND STRESS FREE YOU MAKE IT.
JUST BECAUSE THERE'S OTHERS ON HERE TRYING TO MAKE A POINT ON WHY THEY ARE ""SO HAPPY"" WITH SECOND SLOPS DOES NOT MEAN SHIT. FOR ALL YOU KNOW THEY ARE LOSERS AND TOO LATE TO BAIL OUT.
THE TRUTH IS IT GETS HARDER TO GET INVOLVED AFTER THE AGE OF 40 THIS GOES ESPECIALLY FOR MEN.
DON'T MAKE A MESS OF YOU LIFE WHILE YOU ARE YOUNG AND ABLE TO GO COMMANDO FOR A FEW YEARS HAVING FUN AND GETTING TO KNOW THE DIFFERENT SPICES OF PUSSY MY FOLLOW GROWER.
LETS NOT EVEN TALK ABOUT GROWING WHEN U HAVE SECOND SLOPS BABY IN THE PICTURE.
there's way to much pussy around the world to settle on seconds. Fuck the baby , its not about that baby that isn't even yours bro. IT ALL ABOUT YOU AND YOUR LIFE AND HOW HAPPY AND STRESS FREE YOU MAKE IT.
JUST BECAUSE THERE'S OTHERS ON HERE TRYING TO MAKE A POINT ON WHY THEY ARE ""SO HAPPY"" WITH SECOND SLOPS DOES NOT MEAN SHIT. FOR ALL YOU KNOW THEY ARE LOSERS AND TOO LATE TO BAIL OUT.
THE TRUTH IS IT GETS HARDER TO GET INVOLVED AFTER THE AGE OF 40 THIS GOES ESPECIALLY FOR MEN.
DON'T MAKE A MESS OF YOU LIFE WHILE YOU ARE YOUNG AND ABLE TO GO COMMANDO FOR A FEW YEARS HAVING FUN AND GETTING TO KNOW THE DIFFERENT SPICES OF PUSSY MY FOLLOW GROWER.
LETS NOT EVEN TALK ABOUT GROWING WHEN U HAVE SECOND SLOPS BABY IN THE PICTURE.
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sparkjumper
Man raising your own baby can be tough to say the least,raising someone elses?No tanks you
farmer joe i hope YOUR FATHER kicks your arse all over the street for even thinking like this! all i can say is if you do go through with it when can we all come round for a fuck of your true love cause she must have some smokin hot pussy for you to wanna put your pride to the side and lay down to the ho,oh and i got some bills need payin do ya reckon you could just pay them for me real quick.
good luck farmer joe....
analyze everything
think of all that could happen
analyze everything
think of all that could happen
ResinKing
Member
Ye Farmer you cant choose who you fall in love with , you must have strong feelings inside for her , its a tough situation man. But it could be a case of , you love her but she dont love you the same way man , or not near as much !! I know if a woman thinks your infatuated with her , she wont like it or respect it unless she feels the exact same way about you. They all like a good arguement on the street after a nightclub and then to be beaten , well at least my gf does , fucking hoe ;-] if you have all of these qualities in your relationship , she will stand right by your side through thick and thin.. 
Women are strange beings
Women are strange beings
Take your time she still has feelings for this guy an always will most likely . Tell her yall can deal as freinds an try not to let her know u are as happy as you sound . I think you could be setting yourself up for a fall,i could be wrong tho.
