How to deal with ...?

[StaggerLee]

I have a question for all of you. I have recently met a fellow grower, the grower in question seems to think he is now entitled to everything in my garden. This person doesnt ask for things, they make statements like I expect to go home with this or I expect that cut when he hears I got something new. How would you deal with this putz? My plan is to just tell him to fuck off. Or should I handle it a different way?

Your friend
Stagger

 

[ArcticBlast]

well if he's seen your grow, chances are telling him to fuck off is a bad idea. This is why people say never tell anyone!

ArcticBlast

 

[Lakota412]

simple...cash for clones. Nothin's free.

 

[whiterabbit9]

yeah...... this is why you dont tell people..

but now that you did tell...

lol personnally I would cut ties with the person, if he knows where you live, I could be a little paranoid...

sounds like bad people.

 

[cocktail frank]

share with him.
although, you should have access to all his shit too.
or tell him to ask for something, not tell you he's taking it.
kinda rude on his behalf.
explain to him the same way u did us.
maybe he sees the light

 

[sorcival]

dude...he just seems to have an aggressive personality...however, if you know him well
enough to show him your grow, then he is your personal best friend now. Cant be helped
any longer...you just got a monkey on yer back. IF you tell him to go screw, then he
just MIGHT screw you, kinda according to what kind of person he is and how he feels
about you and Leo.
imo...since you decided to share with the dude your personal grow, might as well
share a few clones, seeds, tokes...etc with him...BUT...always remember this:
Something for Something....Nothing for Nothing
IF you share with him, then make it understood that he WILL share with you.
Another method is to be just as aggressive right back at him, most times this makes
everything ok, cause then his aggressiveness is satisfied that he has found a like
minded spirit.
Most aggressive people are aggressive cause they have learned that they get more
of what they want if they ARE aggressive. As in the age old statement that if you
want more pussy, then just walk right up to the next girl and ask her if she wants
to fuck. She may slap the shit out of you, but if ask enough girls, then you DO get
a lot of pussy. Im just sayin....HA!

 

[whiterabbit9]

if you know him well
enough to show him your grow, then he is your personal best friend now. Cant be helpedany longer...you just got a monkey on yer back.

that's you and your new friend

 

[3rd base]

Definitely take the higher road and DON'T tell him to piss off! Making an enemy in this situation is the last thing you need...

Like cocktail frank said, share with him. Why not? It doesn't take away from what you have...

Also like cocktail frank said, make sure he knows that it works both ways.

With that understood, his tone should change.

 

[uncle_shorty]

hindsight is 20/20.....this story sounds like it will not end well

I would have to say by the way hes acting this is only gonna get worse he sounds like he has a mental problem, I would move if I had made this mistake...from experience

 

[weedin'one]

Hello stagger

I have a question for all of you. I have recently met a fellow grower, the grower in question seems to think he is now entitled to everything in my garden. This person doesnt ask for things, they make statements like I expect to go home with this or I expect that cut when he hears I got something new. How would you deal with this putz? My plan is to just tell him to fuck off. Or should I handle it a different way?

Your friend
Stagger

That 's your garden man !! you just have to protect it as your child .

Tell him to grow . Maybe he 'll make better . ( or not ........... looool )

a++

 

[Iron_Lion]

The way I look at it is you could tell someone you grow or have grown, and they can think whatever they want, but will never really know if or where your garden exists. The second you show someone the garden the game changes completely, now they know where it is, what you've got, and they essentially have you by the balls at this point. That's your fault for being stupid, now you have to keep him on your good side


I try to always keep an air of mystery about me and never discuss projects in the works.

 

[Hash Zeppelin]

Act friendly till your lease is up, then move and disapear.

 

[movingtocally]

My guess is that it's a cultural/communication thing. Most "beefs" are actually just a misunderstanding or a perceived disrespect. It's possible but unlikely that he sees you as weak and is taking advantage of you. I'd come at him in a non-aggressive way and say hey man, that's not fair, and here is why.

 

[whiterabbit9]

^^

funny, I think someone posted the complete opposite, that you need to be agressive to him

let us know how it goes

 

[N. Accumbens]

I'd just give him clones of like thai haze, and other fun adventures.... possibly if you can find some hempy weed.

...and then for the first time ever "accidentally" mislabel 'em, if he's got half a nugget in his brain.
Ya well anyone i ever new got the point, some only had to take one look at em... to know.
It's over.
If your friends don't know how your value system works, they are not friends; but passing gorillas in the mist.

Good Luck,
stay safe...

NAcc

 

[eyebrows86]

tell him the aurthourities are sniffin around and you've switched off if that fails fuck him off

 

[swampdank]

I would start off by gibing him your least desirable plant. When, and only when he shows you a good faith gesture, hook him up.

Dont be bullied. Just dont tell him when you get new stcok. Also, give a little, get a little ya know.

 

[felderosa]

like eyebrows said, or you could tell him you got busted... noone wants to hang out with a heatscore.

 

[Scrogerman]

Give him a few', them tell him to get FUCKED! You have as much dirt on him as he have on you- STALEMATE/CHECKMATE LOL..........G'Luck Dude- 'Defend ya'self but use ya brain!! Down There for Dancing..................

 

[Hundred Gram Oz]

Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer. Just give him a few clones but don't tell him about any new strains that you get in the future.