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Is suddenly missing weed and feeling trapped a good enough reason to dump her?
- Thread starter Trying-to-blend
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but she could be feeling the same way and when he tells her this they could break it off and no mo sex for homeboy
the more and more you yield to her, the more and more she will have you give up. either gain the upper hand back, let her know you wont tolerate this any longer, or give her up. there is no excuse for anyone to treat their significant other like this. its not healthy, and you will end up hating her and yourself in the long run. get ur life back.
sns_stealth
Member
THIS. think about 3-5 years from now, you gotten married have a kid or two, your mortgaged out your ass. broke as hell, take care of the house, take care of the kids all the while shes doing what she wants and your not doing things that she tells you to do "the right way".
DO NOT set a date unless you work these things out and she will let you have a life. Otherwise youll be paying alimony and child support for a long long time. and dont be pressured by family/friends to go through with it, this YOUR LIFE not theirs.
and the "if he dumps her he wont get any" issue is moot. if you get married too her without solving these problems you wont be getting any then either.
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thats what porn is for...
and kids and marriage is number one why guys dont get laid anymore...
Never give up your friends. Maybe you can't hang around them like the old days but you want them there for you if your relationship breaks apart. If it's noting more than the occasional phone call. Just make sure they know (you can be as subtle as you like) that you didn't pick her OVER them. It's just a bummer she's clingy.
I wish you luck.
I wish you luck.
thecreeper
Member
we miss you too man, get rid of that ho
she's separating you from the herd so her prey is easier to take down. climb a tree and get out of her reach. and stick to fellow primates and stay away from the carnivores
I think in a lot of situations like this, people stay with the person even though they are unhappy because most people hate being alone and also dislike change. Life is to short to surrender your happiness. Hang with your friends, smoke dope til your eyes won't open, do what makes YOU happy. If she doesn't like it, then she doesn't like you for who you are.
That is not to say you should NEVER have to sacrifice happiness for someone you love, but you shouldn't have to change your entire lifestyle, social circle, etc for someone.
I have had my share of crazy and possessive girlfriends. But i have no regrets, just really makes me appreciate what a wonderful woman I have now. I honestly can't wait to marry her. Just gotta finish school first before I can afford too!
That is not to say you should NEVER have to sacrifice happiness for someone you love, but you shouldn't have to change your entire lifestyle, social circle, etc for someone.
I have had my share of crazy and possessive girlfriends. But i have no regrets, just really makes me appreciate what a wonderful woman I have now. I honestly can't wait to marry her. Just gotta finish school first before I can afford too!
You deserve to be happy babe
Norrath
Member
this right here.
how about you communicate with her, and see what level you guys can come to terms on.
eexpee
Member
Before you do anything, talk about it all, everything. If it turns into a fight that makes you break up, at least things were said before it happened. It's better than just dumping her before you really had a chance to talk it through, right? At least you knew that things were going to be like this or that. You never know, she may totally understand and you can work through it and have a life as you want it. If a girl is with you to possess you and not compromise, she ain't worth it.
Good luck.
Good luck.
A woman who has done this does not want a husband...she wants a doorstop she can wipe her boots on.
Anyone who behaves in such a puerile, immature and disrespectful manner toward someone she supposedly "loves" deserves a husband about as much as Richard Simmons deserves the Manliest Man of the Century award.
hell yes!!do what you think is right, but if you decide to get married please get a prenup
Didn't read the thread.
Move on bro! Trust me! If she's cutting you off from a social life now it will only get worse. Next will be family and then it really goes downhill.
It's normal to get caught up in dumb shit like that when you're young. She's very insecure (as many young women are) and will need to grow up. But accept advice from those that have been there before. Cut it off. Move on. Cut the bond like Fiskars through a fan leaf. The red flags are waving brightly.
Move on bro! Trust me! If she's cutting you off from a social life now it will only get worse. Next will be family and then it really goes downhill.
It's normal to get caught up in dumb shit like that when you're young. She's very insecure (as many young women are) and will need to grow up. But accept advice from those that have been there before. Cut it off. Move on. Cut the bond like Fiskars through a fan leaf. The red flags are waving brightly.
