If you've ever had someone leave you, bump this thread

[oldschoolfarmer]

Not to get all dramatic or nothin, but yeah I'm going through the process. It wasn't exactly messy, but to give y'all an idea I came home from a business trip to find my house 75% empty

All I can say is Mary Jane's been a helluva help, and I'm glad I always called her my first wife.

If you know what I'm going through, hit this shiz

 

[MCsqrd]

I'd pass you the doob if I could oldschool, good herb goes along ways with these things. I feel ya, recently split with my girl of 2+ years. It still hurts a bit, but it just takes time.

 

[Strainbrain]

Been there... good herb's great company. It gets better every day, whether you know it or not.

-s

 

[medmaker420]

I had the "phone call" while one of my ex's were on vacation. What sucked was after the call realizing WHY she was calling to break up, odds are because she had a conscious and didn't want to cheat SO what better than to get rid of my ass lol.

Dude, easy way...

Think of your previous EX.... How do you feel about her now? Well it passes of course. We move on, we find better tail or more available tail.

Drink, do the pity party, get laid and then you will realize this is LIFE. Now since you only have one life, go out and actually enjoy it BECAUSE if you don't it MIGHT end before you realize it.

 

[fastnick1oo]

Old days...
But remember not to drag yourself too much, it'll not help. For sure.

 

[forester]

No regrets oldschool, most folks have been there. Obviously you will feel like shit for a while but things will pick up. Give it a fortnight and I guarantee you will be in a better place than than you are now!!!

 

[9Lives]

Been there done that..6 yers down the toilet woooooshh lol

Im thinking it's a fucking scam anyways. Stay single and play the field and smoke the herb..

Keep your chin up. In these times you might want to be alone. Some shitty times ahead. You can move faster when alone. One less idiot to worry about.. Our break up was more of a mutual agreement tho..

 

[Prof Sublime]

Keep your head up bro.. It really does get better everyday..

 

[Tonatiuh]

well bro i am going thru the same thing for the last couple months....18 years woosh down the toilet here yo...shit sux ...it does get easier but its takin a while...the best thing i can say is get a new lil hunny or two to spend the time with....nothin serious just someone to holla at and hook up with when you want.the last thing we need is another serious relationship right off the rip yo...i aint never gonna give no other chik 100% ever again yo,the most i have is MAYBE about 50 % to wrap up in a woman yo.its all about me...i dont care what a girl say imma be like this till im old and gray...
play the field yo,shit i been tied down so long i forgot how much these chiks love me LMAO...and also bro,after you get out of a long relationship,these woman be throwin that ass at you maing...its like you just got home from jail,they all missed you...watch you'll see.
i hope you get it all sorted out yo...
peace-T-

 

[buddah]

Tonatiuh hits it!! Keep ya head up!! Bro, better times will come!!

 

[silent_lemon]

i recently got dumped.

me or the plant she says. then blackmails me.

i hear ya mate, 75% of your house?! hope the extra 25% was hers to take!

 

[spookyteabag]

Yeah... happened to me too... It's crap and it takes a while to get over, but when you do you'll be a better person and probably find a better relationship too. Stay strong.

 

[sirgrassalot]

In my 50ish years my list has 65 names that I can remember, I made a few cry.

Both Sides Now

Bows and flows of angel hair and ice cream castles in the air
And feather canyons everywhere, I’ve looked at cloud that way.
But now they only block the sun, they rain and snow on everyone.
So many things I would have done but clouds got in my way.

I’ve looked at clouds from both sides now,
From up and down, and still somehow
It’s cloud illusions I recall.
I really don’t know clouds at all.

Moons and junes and ferris wheels, the dizzy dancing way you feel
As every fairy tale comes real; I’ve looked at love that way.
But now it’s just another show. you leave ’em laughing when you go
And if you care, don’t let them know, don’t give yourself away.

I’ve looked at love from both sides now,
From give and take, and still somehow
It’s love’s illusions I recall.
I really don’t know love at all.

Tears and fears and feeling proud to say I love you right out loud,
Dreams and schemes and circus crowds, I’ve looked at life that way.
But now old friends are acting strange, they shake their heads, they say
I’ve changed.
Something’s lost but something’s gained in living every day.

I’ve looked at life from both sides now,
From win and lose, and still somehow
It’s life’s illusions I recall.
I really don’t know life at all.

 

[Schlossi]

Dumpity Dumped and Divorced.

 

[Cookie monster]

his is gonna be a long long thread.....

My last " girlfriend" dumped me on my birthday right after we got home from a few days away in a 5 star hotel i paid for....worst 1000 euro i ever spent.

but theres always the upside to every story, i'm now stronger and happier and in love with somebody who cares not what the world thinks of them.

 

[iGro4Me]

There is nothing better than being in a committed, reciprocating relationship....But when the shit goes bad, turn the page brother.

There is no better motivator for losing 20 lbs. and getting reaquainted with your barber.

Just keep your head cause I'm sure the torment will begin.

Enjoy the new-found freedom...

 

[Haps]

Sounds clean to me, and you get to keep the house? Man I wish I got to keep my house and some of my stuff. 30 years, I came home to - leave now or I am calling the cops to come get you, and the phone number was punched in already.

Free at last, marraige is the end of liberty.
H

 

[oldschoolfarmer]

I sincerely appreciate the kind words, and personal reflections y'all.

Definitely a hard road ahead, but I have gone back to the gym and started pouring extra time into my career. I like the idea of hooking up with a couple honeys just to spend time, but at the same time I don't want to give anyone the wrong idea... know what I mean?

One thing I do know, all those who spoke of freedom weren't kidding. I miss a lot of things, but I love being able to do whatever I want, whenever I want with whomever I want.

Keep the replies coming, you have no idea how much it helps to hear from other folks' experiences.

 

[Tonatiuh]

ya gotta let the hunnies know you aint in it for the feelings just the fun,somehow it makes them want ya more yo...but as long as ur honest about where your at...
peace-T-

 

[Megas]

Yeah worst was getting cheated on over Thanksgiving then Christmas then she expected me to pick her up at the airport. Sad thing is I even did, I'm a nice guy. But I'm over it now it took a few years because I couldn't understand the evil behind doing something like that to someone that says they love you.