So i need some advice about this new girl in my life

[NOKUY]

oh fuck...eveytime yummybud pops up this damn song goes thru my fukin head lol lol lol lol:


...and i hate this fukin song:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6lK-0wfHutk

 

[Botanist]

i would forget about her. I thought you where telling a story about me for a min. lol that's why i would FORGET about her.

 

[zingablack]

I can't just forget about her. I care to much but I'm not goin to waste time/money/emotions on valentines day if she's not serious.

 

[AndreNicky]

Your never gonna get that girl coming on so hard, ignore her for acouple weeks and she'll be all over you (if not it wasn't meant to be).

 

[zingablack]

I can't just ignore her we've got 2 classes together twice a week so I'm gonna have to confront her. Is there any tactful way to say wat I need to or should I just be blunt about it.

 

[AndreNicky]

Yes u can, make yourself look busy and don't talk to her. If she makes conversation u can respond back but keep it short and simple, also try talking/flirting with other girls infront of her if possible. U probally won't even have to wait that long before shes pursuing you

 

[Zartan]

What I wouldnt trade to be in 6th grade and in love for the first time again .

 

[JJScorpio]

When "two" people care about each other it comes natural. You wouldn't be in this position if she felt the same way. She should want to be around you as much as you do her.

I think you should just tell her that you feel she doesn't feel the same way you do and ask her if she wants you to back off. Giving her ultimatums isn't going to work. She either likes you or she doesn't. You already said she told you she is seeing someone else. Just tell her to be honest and tell you how she feels....

 

[midwestganja]

Walk away let her go, obviously if she was interested she would let you know. Shes probably trying to let you down nicely and still remain friends. Or maybe she wants to have you as a backup option.

 

[PazVerdeRadical]

...She either likes you or she doesn't. You already said she told you she is seeing someone else. Just tell her to be honest and tell you how she feels....

imo, at this point she has already spoken her true feelings, she is dating another dude as it is already.

zingablack should just let her go, and he should be a gentleman doing it too, he did no wrong and should do no wrong if he lets her go without forgetting good manners.

someone once told me when one cannot let go of a woman after one knows she has been playing you, it is not love but infatuation.

much peace

 

[okwildfire]

damn.....ZB..i wish ya luck with what ever ya do..just dont let her pull ya down..OK yummY, we know ya dont have a girl..now turn your rep back on..i have something for ya.

 

[libby]

Your never gonna get that girl coming on so hard, ignore her for acouple weeks and she'll be all over you (if not it wasn't meant to be).

Very good advlce, my partner of 22yrs left her prevlous boyfrlend, as he chased her too much wlth flowers and glfts, they don't all appreclate that klnd of stuff.
Be HARD. otherwlse, you'll chase er off...............easy for me too say, l know.

 

[zingablack]

alright guys well im gonna not call or anything and just say watsup at class. i usually invite her over to my place cause we have a 4 hr break between classes and my place is right near our school, but tomorrow im gonna leave it up to her to ask and if she does than i guess i say yea but im def. asking her wats up.

 

[pack a bowl]

yummybud???

i second this

 

[razz]

start ignoring her
this usually brings them around.

 

[SouthernGuerila]

start ignoring her
this usually brings them around.

yeah they dont like the cold shoulder, if they're interested...

put the ball in her court and if she digs you, y'all do whatever

it almost sounds like she's just playing you....

 

[zingablack]

man if shes playing me than im just fucking blind but i get the sense that shes not. and if so well.......well yea. lets just hope thats not true.

 

[ROJO145]

Good Luck with that Zing,the boyfriends probably just a ruse to make you jealous,and since they been acting like boyfriend and girlfriend for 2 weeks now they are probably fucking,again,probably just to get you jealous.Your best bet is to wait her out,continue to shower her with affection and wait for her new man to get tired of you doing this and leave....then you and this girl will get back to sharing all the love you have between you.

The heart wants what the heart wants!!!!

 

[zingablack]

yea she told me hes super sensitive and she doesnt know how to break it off with him without destroying him. i think im in the lead tho cuz he still lives at home, no job, no car, and hes like 5 years older than me, although that could be a plus for her but i see it as an older man that cant get his shit straight so that puts me in the lead.

 

[ROJO145]

LOL......Shit dude,I was only joking!!You really are fucked up aint ya,now I feel bad!!Some men just cant be reached,she is with another man bro,thats all I said in my last post.Theres no more to it Zing.....over....done....no more thought needed,now snap the fuck out of it,take a shower,and go find you a slice.
I was just bein a dick before,you got to get hard now,let it scar up,and go pitch woo with the next Mrs.Zing........least thats what I would do.