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How long after meeting a girl is it ok to ask her out?

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Iron_Lion

I recently got released from a long term relationship so Im a bit rusty at this dating/asking out thing. I met this girl today and all day this girl was nothing but smiles everytime she looked at me, we exchanged a few words and it turns out we know the same people. Im pretty sure this girl is into me, and vice versa. I'd like to just be blunt tomorrow and be like "Hey it may sound like and odd question, but do you have a boyfriend?" and if she replies no, I'd like to ask her out for dinner sometime. I'd appreciate some input, ladies please feel free to offer some opinions.
 
trouble

trouble

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QUESTION: "How long after meeting a girl is it OK to ask her out?"


ANSWER: 30 Seconds!



Go get her Tiger! You cant be a winner unless you enter! :wave:







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herbie5000

yeah better now than never. ask her, what's the worst that can happen?
 
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Iron_Lion

Hey guys, thanks for the quick replies. Believe me I got nuts LOL, I was holding back from asking her out today. Situation is sticky, I also have an ex thats living with me for a few more weeks. Were trying to end things nicely, so I might just ask for her number and ask her to to save a date for me. If she says no, oh well, lots of fish in the sea.
 
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geminibud

good luck,don't hold back what you want to say,women know when we are bullshiting them......she knows you want her and is likely going through the same butterflies.
Do it........

Peace
 
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Iron_Lion

You dont think it would turn her off by saying we should go out to dinner sometime in a few weeks once the ex moves out? I figure honesty is the best policy.
 
etncrew

etncrew

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wait until the ex moves out to go on dates, that way you got an empty house to bring her home to... ;)


for now just exchange numbers, let her know you are in the process of moving (or some similar bullshit story) but you'd love to chill once you get settled down or something
 
Endo

Endo

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dont ask if she has a boyfriend, just ask her out, then let her TELL you she has a boyfriend. just presume she doesnt. either way you will still get the same answer, as far as im concernd if theres no ring on her finger that guy holding her hand is her brother!!!
 
thekingofNY

thekingofNY

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Iron_Lion said:
Hey guys, thanks for the quick replies. Believe me I got nuts LOL, I was holding back from asking her out today. Situation is sticky, I also have an ex thats living with me for a few more weeks. Were trying to end things nicely, so I might just ask for her number and ask her to to save a date for me. If she says no, oh well, lots of fish in the sea.
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was in that EXACT same situation a few months ago! Like you said though, the absolute worst thing that will happen is she will say no, or laugh at you, i guess that would probably be the worst.... but either way, who cares? if she did that just know you are better than her and she didn't deserve u anyways.

I'm curious are u still f**king yours too? the ex i mean, lol
 
Murphy

Murphy

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Put your past behind you, close the deal asap everytime or you'll fill your life with "I could have, should have, would have". Sometimes you only get one shot if you hesitate on pulling the trigger, someone else will beat you out every time. If you don't get shot down sometimes, you're not trying hard enough or you have your sights set to low.
 
flubnutz

flubnutz

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ask her what she's doing for lunch, lunch is only whatever a limited time so she or you feel it aint going good they got an excuse to split. go get a hotdog whatever nothing fancy, save that for later. that way you get to feel it out more, if it goes goooood get home and kick your old lady's ass to the curb LOL nothin good is gonna wait for long bro you gotta make your move....

i thought i'd add the politically correct translation: "be honest about your feelings to your partner, and tell her that you have moved on, which is better than stringing her along; give her credit for resilience".
 
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CarlWeathers

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If you get to nervous to jsut be blunt, what I like to do is compliment her in some fashion, "beautiful eyes, smile, hair, whatever." She says thanks, you say "i bet you here that from your boyfriend all the time." Then you have your answer.
 
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