thekingofNY
Cannasseur
WARNING: thinking might be required ahead...if you can't read a page in a book you probably want to go to the next post and just skip this....
The more I try to do this, the more I let myself down... Maybe its just I plan or expect way to much? I dunno... but by now I know I wanted to at least be engaged... this all comes not more than 4 months after i left my ex after she cheated on me. Did i mention women=trouble, sorry ladies, nothing personal but I find the majority of women to be trouble, however the ones that are reading this are probably not in the majority...
Nikki sixx (Motley crue) couldnt have been more right when he wrote that shiat in his diary...its definitely one of those love/hate relationships though in that your damned if you do and damned if you don't. I recently read the heroin diaries by Nikki and was impressed...(I normally am not much of a reader, I can read/comprehend very fast, but never really got pleasure out of reading, but this was an interesting book)
I feel like its the exact same sort of thing with a job...
I mean I ended up where I am today by total accident; nothing special although I managed to find a job I actually enjoy going to 9/10 days , I also make nearly as much money as my parents and I dont even have a degree...I didn't plan on that JOB AT ALL... I totally went into the situation with my an attitude of "I am just going to have a ton of fun at work" , ended up really liking the place/management, I am fairly certain I could burn one down with our president or my immediate boss.
I put my pot charges on my application when I applied, my boss knows I smoke. These are all things I always dreamed of and tried my hardest to "find" so to speak when I got out of high school....it never happened until I gave up one day and just said fuck it, I am just going to go with the flow for once... I ended up taking a chance with a complete stranger and leaving everything and everyone i knew... it was the best fucking choice I ever made in my whole life. Sure if i could go back now I would do somethings differently, but I would still do it all again... wouldn't change that for the world.
Anyways , back to my original question, Is it even possible to plan out your life just the way you want it? I am in my mid 20s, but I already am thinking its not, and if you try you are just headed for disappointment. I sure as fuck didnt plan this shiat; being in a "strange" city so to speak in that I have no family or close friends here, living with 2 female roomates who are a few years older than me that i barely know? With a car I got from the ex i moved up here to be with and it didnt work out? Thankfully i have mary jane and all the people that love her. I find she tends to bring us together ...
I mean obviously I would love to meet another cute awesome stranger from some far away city that I had perfect chemistry with and wanted to pay for me to move across the country again, but obviously the odds on that happening again are not too good... So I dont know what to do, I don't really have any motivation to date again, when I met my ex I thought it was going to be a total one night stand thing, but then her crazy ass payed for me to fly up here to visit and i liked it...I really was not that attracted to her, but I just went with it and ended up moving up here and having a great time over the past few years and falling in love with her in the process and also meeting a ton of cool ass people along the way.
So what do I do? I was at a bar tonight eating and drinking with a friend and there is no way in hell I am going to go try to find my next future wife at a fucking bar, I know the problem is I am looking at it from that point of view (potential wife), but its hard not too.
I know one thing for sure, my next relationship will have to be with a girl that smokes and loves to smoke as much as I...this past one wasn't, well she did a few times a year, but it wasn't really her cup of tea. What to do? I know I am going to find what I am looking for when I least expect it and knowing that fucking BLOWS! I want to go find her damit.
The more I try to do this, the more I let myself down... Maybe its just I plan or expect way to much? I dunno... but by now I know I wanted to at least be engaged... this all comes not more than 4 months after i left my ex after she cheated on me. Did i mention women=trouble, sorry ladies, nothing personal but I find the majority of women to be trouble, however the ones that are reading this are probably not in the majority...
Nikki sixx (Motley crue) couldnt have been more right when he wrote that shiat in his diary...its definitely one of those love/hate relationships though in that your damned if you do and damned if you don't. I recently read the heroin diaries by Nikki and was impressed...(I normally am not much of a reader, I can read/comprehend very fast, but never really got pleasure out of reading, but this was an interesting book)
I feel like its the exact same sort of thing with a job...
I mean I ended up where I am today by total accident; nothing special although I managed to find a job I actually enjoy going to 9/10 days , I also make nearly as much money as my parents and I dont even have a degree...I didn't plan on that JOB AT ALL... I totally went into the situation with my an attitude of "I am just going to have a ton of fun at work" , ended up really liking the place/management, I am fairly certain I could burn one down with our president or my immediate boss.
I put my pot charges on my application when I applied, my boss knows I smoke. These are all things I always dreamed of and tried my hardest to "find" so to speak when I got out of high school....it never happened until I gave up one day and just said fuck it, I am just going to go with the flow for once... I ended up taking a chance with a complete stranger and leaving everything and everyone i knew... it was the best fucking choice I ever made in my whole life. Sure if i could go back now I would do somethings differently, but I would still do it all again... wouldn't change that for the world.
Anyways , back to my original question, Is it even possible to plan out your life just the way you want it? I am in my mid 20s, but I already am thinking its not, and if you try you are just headed for disappointment. I sure as fuck didnt plan this shiat; being in a "strange" city so to speak in that I have no family or close friends here, living with 2 female roomates who are a few years older than me that i barely know? With a car I got from the ex i moved up here to be with and it didnt work out? Thankfully i have mary jane and all the people that love her. I find she tends to bring us together ...
I mean obviously I would love to meet another cute awesome stranger from some far away city that I had perfect chemistry with and wanted to pay for me to move across the country again, but obviously the odds on that happening again are not too good... So I dont know what to do, I don't really have any motivation to date again, when I met my ex I thought it was going to be a total one night stand thing, but then her crazy ass payed for me to fly up here to visit and i liked it...I really was not that attracted to her, but I just went with it and ended up moving up here and having a great time over the past few years and falling in love with her in the process and also meeting a ton of cool ass people along the way.
So what do I do? I was at a bar tonight eating and drinking with a friend and there is no way in hell I am going to go try to find my next future wife at a fucking bar, I know the problem is I am looking at it from that point of view (potential wife), but its hard not too.
I know one thing for sure, my next relationship will have to be with a girl that smokes and loves to smoke as much as I...this past one wasn't, well she did a few times a year, but it wasn't really her cup of tea. What to do? I know I am going to find what I am looking for when I least expect it and knowing that fucking BLOWS! I want to go find her damit.
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